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:: back2back
:: QA8 High Householder
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What is the most offensive, homophobic thing someone has ever said to you. I know it seems like a bit of a 'downer', but just wondering.

It could be something that is personal to you or would offend the majority of the population!
Interviewer: According to you, the girls run the world - but what do you think about the girls and the gays teaming up and running the world together?

Beyoncé: Well, that's what I meant when I said girls. (Laughs)
  Post: #666507 Link to this post, Mon 16 Jul 12, 7:16PM
:: PandaBubbaXx
:: QA9 Grand Elder
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"You shouldn't do that, only girls do that you queer "
Oh shut the fuck up >.< you've been around me for 3 years like this now!
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  Post: #666517 Link to this post, Mon 16 Jul 12, 7:22PM
:: lovelypoison
:: QA3 Getting cosy
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"How could you do that, why would you do that. Its so weird."

When I came out at school a kid said this to me.
"A perfect lie, makes a beautiful truth."- Mee
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  Post: #666535 Link to this post, Mon 16 Jul 12, 7:43PM
:: samuel22
:: QA9 Grand Elder
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"What the fuck is wrong with you, no don't say that, that's what girls say, poof"

then there is the classical ones like:

"your as queer as fuck"
"fag"
"faggot"
"poof"

and some other ones but they are just meaningless.
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  Post: #666570 Link to this post, Mon 16 Jul 12, 8:16PM
:: CorrieK
:: QA5 Having the neighbours round
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Someone who didn't know I was gay once went into a long rant about how the country was "going to the f***ing homos," among other things of this nature. I said that I must have misheard him, because I thought he just insulted me...the look on his face was priceless!
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  Post: #666588 Link to this post, Mon 16 Jul 12, 8:39PM
:: zee_to_a
:: QA4 A spot of tea please, Alfred!
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'Bisexuality doesn't exists'
and
'You're too girly, so you must be a girl.' or something like that. I was pissed.
  Post: #666589 Link to this post, Mon 16 Jul 12, 8:39PM
:: Legohead
:: QA8 High Householder
Stephen is mowing the lawn, indefinitely [Avatar]
"I don't even know why I'm still talking to you. It's almost embarrassing. You're unnatural and sick in the head. Fuck off to the mental hospital where all you other puffs should be"

The good old days of when I first came out.
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  Post: #666612 Link to this post, Mon 16 Jul 12, 8:54PM
:: BigGayBear
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"Go Die."

I was banned from the school dining hall for a week after what happened next.
I'm a Loiner, apparently...
  Post: #666615 Link to this post, Mon 16 Jul 12, 8:56PM
:: lawofmoriarty
:: QA1 Just in
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"You're too pretty to like girls."

"It's alright to be gay or lesbian, but bisexuality is definitely a choice because if you can be happy with guys then you shouldn't be dating girls anyway." That one was my mom. -_-

"You like girls? What a waste."
People tell me that I have this awful mental disease. Personally, I don't think it's fatal or even harmful; if anything I'm a little bit lovesick.
  Post: #666640 Link to this post, Mon 16 Jul 12, 9:20PM
:: jimmyvon789
:: QA4 A spot of tea please, Alfred!
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"Get the fuck away from me, you fucking faggot rapist!"

It wasn't nice.
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No, I don't know what that means.
  Post: #666643 Link to this post, Mon 16 Jul 12, 9:35PM
:: indielibra
:: QA6 Livin' it up!
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"You want cock up your ass- gross."

"You're a queer!"
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  Post: #666723 Link to this post, Tue 17 Jul 12, 2:48AM
:: SamIAm2
:: QA9 Grand Elder
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The worst comments I've seen weren't directed at me, but just gay people in general. Basically saying we don't deserve to live, that they're disgusted to have to share the same space and breathe the same air as us, that we should all be shipped off to some island and stop infecting everyone with out AIDS (which doesn't make sense, because if only gays got AIDS, how would straight people even get it in the first place)

Although I've also had people tell me that I'm disgusting, that I'm a whore, that I'm just a little crybaby who's only gay because I'm afraid that if I have sex with a man, it will be too pleasurable and I'll cry (?????), that I'm afraid of penis, that I'm too closed-minded because I'm not willing to fuck a random guy (to which I reply, "Okay, you fuck a guy first, then we'll talk"). The personal insults usually don't bother me too much because usually they're pretty untrue, but it's when I see a bunch of people saying how much they hate gays in general, it reminds me of how much some people hate us and it just makes me think my life is going to suck?
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  Post: #666729 Link to this post, Tue 17 Jul 12, 2:58AM
:: RyRyPanda
:: QA5 Having the neighbours round
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....... i don't get offended by any of it. I just realize that not all people like or accept homosexuals and i don't let it bug me. If they ever turn out to accept me, fabulous. if not, no skin off my back.
And to be completely honest, despite living in a conservative christian community, i don't get picked on much. Or maybe i'm always getting bullied. idk. I'm pretty oblivious and/or i don't give a flying f**k.
I think everything would be a lot easier if people didn't get offended by that sort of thing and let it roll off like i do. But thats not gunnna happen cuz every1 is different. which is good..... most of the time w>
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  Post: #666750 Link to this post, Tue 17 Jul 12, 3:58AM
:: Autumn1492
:: QA7 Taking responsibility
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These were all from my mother:
"All queers care about is fucking and they don't care about any one but themselves!"
"I hate faggots and dykes! I'll never think it's ok!"
"Why do they always have to try and shove homos at us?"
"Being transgender is an abomination; an affront to God! It's disgusting and unnatural!"
There's probably like fifty more that I can't remember but I'm sure I'll hear some new ones soon. Curse my family Emoticon: Sad :(
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  Post: #666754 Link to this post, Tue 17 Jul 12, 4:02AM
:: TealSkye
:: QA7 Taking responsibility
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In all the situations where homophobia could have happened, I didn't realize I was gay.

Stupidist thing I've heard.

"I just don't want some dudes junk up my butt. Theres something wrong with that."

That's was my dad. He's not as stupid anymore, don't worry.
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  Post: #666756 Link to this post, Tue 17 Jul 12, 4:05AM
:: Hannahlah15
:: QA5 Having the neighbours round
Hannah is alone in this world,, indefinitely [Avatar]
"It's just a phase"
"It's unnatural."
"It's an experiment."
"You're going to burn in Hell. Forever."
"It's the opposite of being in your right mind."

All from one person, during one conversation. I haven't talked to her hardly since.
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  Post: #666795 Link to this post, Tue 17 Jul 12, 5:05AM
:: Haldo
:: QA6 Livin' it up!
The worst things I've heard that were directed at me were from my best friend. She's gotten much less stupid about LGBT stuff since most of this stuff was said, though...
"It's a good thing you decided not to make [that character] fall for a boy! (note: I write stories) Because otherwise? Gay pride!!"
"Look, I only think Justin Bieber is gay because I hate him!"
"You need to tone down the gay pride. You're shoving it in my face."
"Oh, good, I love gay jokes." (She said this one to someone else, but it was when I was around. She did not give two fucks that I despise most gay jokes.)
  Post: #666853 Link to this post, Tue 17 Jul 12, 9:38AM
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