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:: Justhere
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I know there is something just like this, but...

What are some reasons you would be weary or not weary of dating a bisexual girl?
"the world would be boring without some measure of insanity" -unknown

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  Post: #657632 Link to this post, Mon 18 Jun 12, 3:25PM
:: Shy_Blossomer
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I'm a bi girl, I would not be weary of dating another bi girl, because I know if she was serious enough about the relationship, i could trust her not to go behind my back.
  Post: #657634 Link to this post, Mon 18 Jun 12, 3:30PM
:: briicee
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In reality I am a jealous person and me dating a bi girl had me more afraid of who she could be cheating with. IT COULD BE ANYONE. In the end she swore she was a lesbian, but she had sex with a boy at a party when i was sick.... So i won't try a bi girl again.
  Post: #657640 Link to this post, Mon 18 Jun 12, 3:53PM
:: 32flavorsgirl
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As a bi/not-exactly-sure-but-I-just-like-people, girl I get really annoyed and frustrated when I hear that people "don't trust" bi girls or guys because they may be "more likely to cheat" or "more likely to change their minds"
Trust me.
We don't.
I've been cheated on before- I fell apart, and guess what? I was dating a straight guy.
It isn't the sexual orientation that promotes cheating, its the person. So please do me and all other walks of life a favor and just get to know us as who we are before judging! Emoticon: Smile :)
-A
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  Post: #657641 Link to this post, Mon 18 Jun 12, 4:12PM
:: Justhere
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Ash-
I'm bi too, and i find it kind of offensive, but i see where they are coming from if they've had bad experiences. I hate that there are girls that cheat and ruin it for the rest of us. :/
"the world would be boring without some measure of insanity" -unknown

"Don't ever bully anyone cause you know what? Karma has everybody's address and a motherf*cking stamp!"
-Lady Gaga
  Post: #657658 Link to this post, Mon 18 Jun 12, 4:56PM
:: capricious
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Agreed. It kind of bothers me that lgbt people get annoyed when straight people think they want to sleep with everyone. But they assume that if we like more than one gender that we are more likely to cheat. People from all sexual orientations cheat, and its wrong. But being one sexual orientation doesn't change whether your a person who would cheat or not. It only seems that way because when you get cheated with the opposite gender it seems to be a worse blow against you.
L<3VE~
  Post: #657676 Link to this post, Mon 18 Jun 12, 7:25PM
:: Hana
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I think the biggest issue to watch out for is how confident they are in their attraction to women -problems tend to arise mostly from girls who seem to be 'trying out' female attraction and then change their minds.
How many of us has that happened to, seriously...
Lets get one thing straight: I'm not.

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  Post: #657688 Link to this post, Mon 18 Jun 12, 8:12PM
:: Oatfused
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I don't think it's completely fair that people assume bi's are more likely to cheat, though I do understand it. Cheating is something that people are very afraid of, I mean no one wants to get hurt. So people will try to make situations in which they think they'll be less likely to get hurt. Since many people think that people that are bi may only be using them as an experiment they think they're more likely to leave them. Though people no matter what orientation will cheat. I wish people would give each other chances more, but I guess you have to do what makes you comfortable.
  Post: #657690 Link to this post, Mon 18 Jun 12, 8:24PM
:: Tiara
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I think I'd like to date a bi person. Honestly, I might even prefer it to dating a straight guy or even a gay girl. I try not to be judgmental, but the things people in general say about bi people is just horrible and I don't think I'd want to risk dating someone who thinks my sexuality is a risk for them.
  Post: #657691 Link to this post, Mon 18 Jun 12, 8:28PM
:: xdarkdatax
:: QA4 A spot of tea please, Alfred!
Speaking as a former bisexual...the only thing that is going to increase the chances of a bi cheating is if they aren't entirely comfortable. If a bi boy dates another boy, and isn't too comfortable with it, then yes, there's a higher chance they will test out with a girl. But for those of them that are comfortable with it, then they're just as likely as any straight person. It's all based around how comfortable they are!
  Post: #657696 Link to this post, Mon 18 Jun 12, 8:35PM
:: sparnaram
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Those are just stupid stereotypes. If a person is dedicated to a relationship, he/she will not cheat. It's either that or the sex-life is simply crap.
  Post: #657726 Link to this post, Mon 18 Jun 12, 9:37PM
:: Mariaa
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I'm a bi girl and I'd only be afraid of dating a bi girl if I didn't know her too well and there was a chance she was just fishing for attention. I knew a girl who was dating a girl that was only in it for the attention.
  Post: #657815 Link to this post, Mon 18 Jun 12, 11:53PM
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