Why can't figuring out your sexuality be EASY? Ugh....
Okay, so at first I thought I was bi, then I thought I was lesbian, then I thought I was straight and now I'm thinking lesbian again!!! HELP!!!!
I still think some guys are hot (like Thor from The Avengers) and some guys are just, ya know, HOT and stuff but I don't feel like I could actually really date one anymore..... But then I do kinda.... OH MY GOSH!!!!!!! But then some girls are cool to and they are nice and sweet and funny and pretty and MNJKBHDIYJN~
I think I should find a girlfriend.... I feel like that would help, but I don't wanna have a girlfriend JUST so I can figure out my sexuality, I wanna have one because I like her. I used to like this girl (I think she's straight though)
Homophobia is gay
LOKI'D!!!!!!
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Post: #655769  , Mon 11 Jun 12, 4:07AM |
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YES! I'M NOT ALONE! Sorry to delight in your misery, but it's nice to know there's someone out there who gets it. I keep thinking I have everything figured out, but then suddenly it changes. I went from pansexual to straight to pansexual to bisexual to lesbian to straight to bisexual (probably, I don't want to jinx it by saying I'm for sure bi, because it might change again) I can't really give you any advice because I'm still trying to figure it out myself, but hopefully just knowing there are other people going through the same thing will help. Message me if you want someone to talk to about it. Who knows, maybe it will help us both figure things out. Or it might just be nice to have someone to talk to who understands
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Post: #655771 , Mon 11 Jun 12, 4:12AM |
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I say that maybe the label thing is overrated for people like you. I'd say let yourself be attracted to whomever you want and date whomever and just don't give it a label. The whole "love is blind" thing or basically being pansexual without the label is a good fit for the two of you. Then you can fluctuate between sexualities and not have to worry about the latest label. Just do whatever the freak you want and be label-less.
Hope that helps  .
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Post: #655862 , Mon 11 Jun 12, 5:50PM |
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Thanks Hannah This helped A LOT!
Homophobia is gay
LOKI'D!!!!!!
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Post: #656030 , Tue 12 Jun 12, 3:45AM |
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yeah..it blows.
but just take some time to think about it. getting a girlfriend won't make you magically realize your sexuality. trust me, I've been there. just really think about it. if you think guys are hot, that doesn't mean you're bi\straight. I think sexuality has to do with physical, emotional, and mental attraction.
but you'll figure it out eventually. it took me about a year of questioning to realize I'm gay.
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Post: #656039 , Tue 12 Jun 12, 4:43AM |
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I know what you mean. It's so hard to put a label on what I feel and make it stay! I think you should focus less on the label and just see who you are attracted to. Worry about what to call yourself later.
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Post: #656047 , Tue 12 Jun 12, 5:31AM |
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Thank Christ there's someone else! It's so hard to figure out what you and where to fit in! I'm very strongly leaning towards men, but I still like girls....I mean I find them attractive and stuff, but I just feel so much more strongly about guys. Does that mean I'm gay? Or bi? Or what?
Believe in the you that believes in you.
No, I don't know what that means.
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Post: #656164 , Tue 12 Jun 12, 9:25PM |
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I'm starting to wonder if sexuality is even more fluid than we realize. I'm a lesbian but I suppose it's possible I might be attracted to a male someday, and whatever that entails. I would probably be like "Ugh this is gross" before anything went too far lol, but I mean hey, maybe there's some super human male out there who could woo me. I'm not saying I like men or want to like them; I just think who we are attracted to is determined by far more than sex. I just happen to adore women  for multiple reasons. I sure didn't expect to ever be a lesbian. That was a bit of a surprise when I crushed on my first girl.
"Two roads diverged in a wood, and I... I took the one less traveled by. And that has made all the difference."
http://www.soulforce.org/resou...-homosexuality/
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Post: #656204 , Wed 13 Jun 12, 12:43AM |
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I defenetly know how you feel! I thought I was bi but no I'm thinking I might be lesbian but I still think some guys are hot just not for me.
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Post: #656512 , Thu 14 Jun 12, 5:24AM |
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