:: Nealmonte
:: QA5 Having the neighbours round | |
When it comes to relationships I've been told I a very strong. The strongest they've seen actually. I have absolutely no problem with a long-distance relationship. I am that faithful. I'm that strong. I don't even flirt. Is a long-distance something you can handle?
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Post: #653242  , Fri 1 Jun 12, 2:54AM |
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I dont think I could handle it...I wouldnt cheat, it would just get to the point where I'd long for the physical presence of the other person. Just to hug them or look them directly in the eyes, even. The internet is great and all but it's not enough for me.
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Post: #653250 , Fri 1 Jun 12, 3:37AM |
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It's not necessarily a matter of strength. Its a test of two peoples commitment. I much prefer to share an emotional and physical relationship with someone rather than a merely emotional one.
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Post: #653286 , Fri 1 Jun 12, 6:50AM |
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I'm not sure if I could handle it. If I met someone that I REALLY loved then of course! But If I am not 100% sure about them then I don't think so cause I think being physical (not just sexually but affectionately) is important in a relationship and if you are far away then that can't happen.
<3
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Post: #653704 , Sun 3 Jun 12, 4:15AM |
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I couldn't handle it. Not because I'd be tempted to cheat or talk to other guys or girls, but because I thrive on face-to-face communication. I dislike talking over the phone or text messages. I'd much rather communicate in person. Things like Skype would probably make it much easier for me, but it still wouldn't be the same.
I've been with my current boyfriend for almost two years now and I've seen him every day. He doesn't have a cell phone and he lives three blocks from me and I think since we started dating my communication skills have improved tremendously, to the point where I use my cell phone so little that I almost never even keep it on me.
Don't get me wrong, I'm addicted to the Internet. I love the diversity it offers but I mostly use it for tumblr and other sites to share photos.
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Post: #653707 , Sun 3 Jun 12, 4:27AM |
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I think it depends on the person. I think it's really swell that you are that strong, that's just what this world needs.
Old Soul
Young thinker
Born in the wrong generation
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Post: #653798 , Sun 3 Jun 12, 9:21PM |
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To me, long distance relationships seem like a really close friendship, because you can't have that physical aspect.
I can see maybe staying in a relationship if it started off in person and then circumstance forced it into a long distance one, but other than that, not for me. The physical aspect is really important.
La clarté étrange de ton sourire illumine mon été.
I wish I were a glow worm, a glow worm's never glum. 'Cause how can you be grumpy when the sun shines out your bum?
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Post: #653812 , Sun 3 Jun 12, 9:49PM |
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I definitely can. I think physical attraction of a relationship is important, but that I can "learn" (in a sense) to appreciate their exterior and touch
For me, the actual person: their personality; their brain; their emotions are what I hold most important. And those can be achieved in effective communication
I'm as straight as a rainbow
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Post: #653852 , Sun 3 Jun 12, 11:53PM |
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I could handle and currently I am handling it. I'm in a ldr with an amazing girl though it may get hard because you can't actually hug or kiss or hold your gf/bf
But you just have to stay strong
I don't flirt and I would never cheat because no matter how far apart y'all are you still have to understand your in a relationship none the less.
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Post: #653854 , Sun 3 Jun 12, 11:58PM |
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I'm in an LDR and my past two exes are from LDRs.
As long as we call and send photographs and text often then I'm fine. Eventually I need to see that person in the flesh and blood but I can handle an LDR.
If there isn't enough communication though... Then that's a problem.
To see us dance is to hear our hearts speak- Hopi Indian saying
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Post: #653872 , Mon 4 Jun 12, 1:27AM |
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I could handle it, I've handled it before, but I prefer a real person, because you can't really trust people online, people online, just like to screw around with your emotions and don't give a shiz about you (that's not the case for everyone, just all my LDR relationships) I prefer the physical contact, the cuddling the kissing, the holding hands, staring into each others eyes. The feeling of closeness
Sam and Dana <333- 11/01/13<333
"Spiteful words can hurt your feelings, but silence can break your heart."-Unknown
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"Without Music, Life Would Be A Mistake"- Marty(Here Comes The Boom)
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Post: #653873 , Mon 4 Jun 12, 1:31AM |
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:: MrGLaDOS
:: QA5 Having the neighbours round | |
I really don't think a LDR would work for me at all. Maybe if I was already in a relationship with somebody and then one of us had to relocate, or a similar situation, but I really couldn't imagine being in a relationship with somebody that you'd never met before IRL.
Also, I'm such a mushy romantic and I would find it hard to express my feelings over the internet.
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Post: #653875 , Mon 4 Jun 12, 2:03AM |
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I dont think i could...
Especially since my parents check my internet and txts... it would have to be in real life so i could tell them what i feel without having my parents reading it
(Thank God For incognito)
Twitter: @brayray32
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Post: #653878 , Mon 4 Jun 12, 2:05AM |
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Wow, I'm vain.
When I saw the words 'Can You Handle It?' literally the first thought in my head was "Handle what? My own sexiness?" Yeah. XD
Anyway, back on topic.
I don't know if I can or not. I've only been in one legit long-distance relationship. I ended it after 2 or 3 months for reasons that had nothing to do with the distance. So the distance thing was okay, but I don't know if it would have been had it gone on for any longer.
The caged bird stands on a grave of dreams
His shadow shouts on a nightmare scream
His wings are clipped and his feet are tied
So he opens his throat to sing.
The caged bird sings with a fearful trill
Of things unknown, but longed for still
And his tune is heard on a distant hill
For the caged bird
Sings of freedom.
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Post: #653880 , Mon 4 Jun 12, 2:13AM |
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Dying my hair!
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Things that grow
My new life
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Alone
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