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:: QA4 A spot of tea please, Alfred!
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So, I put this on my blog, but got no comments and I really need help so hopefully I'll get some advice here(:

I've decided that I'm going to experiment with my gender. I just need some questions answered and they're probably stupid but oh well aha. Where can I get things to hold my boobs down? Or what can I use that won't suffocate me? And also, where is a good place to get some I don't know...dude-ish clothes? Like I wish they had a store for butch lesbians. Like instead of looking in the dude sections at Walmart because every time I do that I get a shirt that hides my boobs perfectly but is like a circus tent everywhere else. It's frustrating. And then the clothes that fit nice on my body are too tight for my boobs even when I'm wearing two sports bras. So yeah, I lost track of what I'm saying...um...yeah haha.
  Post: #649909 Link to this post, Thu 17 May 12, 8:33AM
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I recommend that you invest in a binder, preferably one which comes with a velcro/zip closure and which cuts off above the rib cage so you can breathe easier throughout the day because it can get really hot and sweaty after a while.

http://www.t-kingdom.com/
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is pricey but well worth it.
If not, you can always ask for spare binders at various LGBT youth centres, which is how I got mine.

As for men's clothing, I suggest layering t-shirts with a button-down shirt.
Layering in general helps a lot in order to disguise any awkward angles.

Hope that helps.
"Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall." - Ralph Waldo Emerson
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:: QA4 A spot of tea please, Alfred!
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Here, message me and I can help. I've been in your position before Emoticon: Smile :) about... 6 months ago actually. And really would have been nice if i had been helped then.
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  Post: #649924 Link to this post, Thu 17 May 12, 1:40PM
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