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:: QA4 A spot of tea please, Alfred! | |
So I am planning on telling this girl I love her and for now lets call her Gray.
I have been sorting through my feelings and since I had a nice long 200 mile talk with my dad. (literally 200 miles drive). I pretty much told him that I like this girl.
All he said was that as long as I am happy that he is happy. That not to close the doors in love and if I like her then thats good. Because god just wants us to truely love. (so needed to hear that)
Although today I confessed to my friend that I actually love this girl I have loved her since for now 3years and well I need advice of how I should approach the subject or how I should tell her. I am pretty much freaking out.
So please any ideas, advice, thoughts, feeling,etc. Would be much appreciated.
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Post: #649665  , Wed 16 May 12, 8:05AM |
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First of all do you know she is gay?
If she isn't I don't think she will like you coming on to her.
If you don't know try to find out first but ultimately you can either tell her or never know what may happen between you.
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Post: #649686 , Wed 16 May 12, 2:53PM |
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:: QA7 Taking responsibility | |
Flowers are always a nice gift, or you could make her a mixtape. Try to figure out what she likes and give her something unique that shows you care and like her. Or you could always just ask her out to a movie or something, and either you can ask her if it's a date, or if at first she says something like "I don't like you like that" then you can say it's just as friends.
It's your decision though, and you need to do what's best for you. You should also probably know if she likes girls or not first.
"Be who you are and say how you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind."-Dr.Seuss
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Post: #649696 , Wed 16 May 12, 3:34PM |
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:: QA4 A spot of tea please, Alfred! | |
Thank you Emma and Stephen and yeah she likes guys and girls but has only had girlfriends before. I have given her a painting before and liked it although when I told her if she wanted to be something more or friends she had said both but later on like 3mnths later we got into a huge misunderstanding and it has been almost a year we havent talked.
Yeah I think I might just do that of giving her a mix tape she loves to dance.
I am waiting for her to reply to my message to see if we can talk. *Shrug all i can do is wait and do the tape mean while.
Thank you so much for the advice. ^_^
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Post: #650571 , Sun 20 May 12, 7:05PM |
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Three's A Crowd... or is it?
Oh no, I procrastinated again! (Rant Warning)
Lily Helena Knight
Things that grow
Just so.
My new life
Trip to the zoo!
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