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:: blacksummer
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TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL. The worst thing I ever did was NOT tell my crush how I felt because then they ended up dating someone else and then years later I would tell them and they asked me why I didn't tell them SOONER because they liked me at that point in time too and now it was too late. So take the risk and tell her because the worst mistake I ever made was keeping my mouth shut.
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  Post: #649617 Link to this post, Wed 16 May 12, 3:34AM
:: Kuuipo
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Opposites attract.
I'd tell her how I felt before it was too late.
Besides, you can't just assume she doesn't like you back.
You have to ask to actually know.
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  Post: #649619 Link to this post, Wed 16 May 12, 3:37AM
:: nnie
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i agree, opposites do attract.
i say gooo for it, what's the worst? she rejects you and it becomes awkward, it's not the end os the world, is it?
there's at least 50% that you guys can be together if you tell her before it's too late.
so tell her Emoticon: Smile :)
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  Post: #649693 Link to this post, Wed 16 May 12, 3:16PM
:: crashley
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Thank you for the advice Emoticon: Smile :) im meeting up with her tonight
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  Post: #649799 Link to this post, Thu 17 May 12, 12:28AM
:: RobotXTheatre
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Yea, I had the same issue except it was 3 years. Don't wait because more than likely, they have the same feelings for you too. Gotta speak up bro.
Possibly nuts :P
  Post: #649812 Link to this post, Thu 17 May 12, 12:57AM
:: thefuzz
:: QA9 Grand Elder
How'd it go?

I can't agree with Lizzie/Bean more.

This has literally happened to me like 3-4 times. Where I've had a crush on a girl, and then like 3 years later finally muster up the courage to say "you know I thought you were cute back then!" only to have her say "are you KIDDING? i had the BIGGEST crush on you!! /too bad now i have a girlfriend/i worked really hard to get over you so it's just not there anymore/insert heartbreaking excuse here"

Yup. It's sad. Tell people how you feel. Of course, don't be creepy about it. Like, if she doesn't express immediate interest or seems to back off, give her space/time/stop hitting on her for chrissakes. Once you put yourself out there they have to match you, and if they don't, you risk being harassing/creepy. You don't sound like the type, so just be yourself and be honest and direct and cool and there's really nothing bad that could come of it. Unless she's totally immature. And if she is, do you want that anyway? Good luck Emoticon: Grin :D
  Post: #649871 Link to this post, Thu 17 May 12, 4:10AM
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