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Ok is it me or those this happen to a lot of other LGBT people. When you see a gay male or female that you find attractive did you notice there always Taken? If there not taken you find that they never find you attractive like the feeling isn't mutual at all. Sometimes when I go into H&M aka(Gay Haven) I see alot of attractive gay guys with either their friends they never look twice at me. I have such a great personality that If you pass me I say hi. Do you feel the same way?
RoManze88
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Post: #647118  , Tue 8 May 12, 2:00AM |
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I feel your pain, man!!!
Although for me, it's either they're taken or their heart is already devoted to someone else and there's no changing their mind.
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Post: #647124 , Tue 8 May 12, 2:12AM |
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Thank you lol.. Im glad someone those because I thought I was alone in this one. Its like Im cursed or something to always have to watch everyone else be happyly in love.=(
RoManze88
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Post: #647138 , Tue 8 May 12, 2:31AM |
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I felt the same way when, I went to a local lgbtq group. And then one day, a guy who I thought was not attracted to me asked me out. Now I'm taken too... I see how this works now...
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Post: #647210 , Tue 8 May 12, 6:20AM |
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Yes, I definately notice this.
For me, though, I'm not THAT picky, so I can find physical attraction, but not in personality.
There's physically attractive guys who are single, but... they wanna stay that way. Because they just want sex. =\ Which I don't want.
The guys who have the looks, personality, everything... they're the ones who are taken. 
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Post: #647217 , Tue 8 May 12, 7:23AM |
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:: Falconfly
:: QA5 Having the neighbours round | |
Occured to me enough times that it isn't funny anymore.
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Post: #647262 , Tue 8 May 12, 1:50PM |
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Gosh I know right?? Maybe it's because I don't have gay written on my forehead (not literally lol) like some guys do but I know exactly what you mean! They don't even give me the sideways glance :/
But I'm not worried, cause I'm not the only one, and theres someone out there for me, I just haven't found him yet :]
We need more guys like us out in the world!!
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Post: #647273 , Tue 8 May 12, 2:26PM |
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:: Dood
:: QA6 Livin' it up! | |
I can relate to some degree. There is this guy I go to school with who I found out is gay and I kind of thought he was sort of cute so I got to know him a bit better on Facebook and after about a week or so of talking I basically just up and confessed how I felt about him and, while he said he was flattered and all that, he just didn't feel the same way. Plus he's a Senior and I'm a Sophomore so if we started dating he'd then be heading off to college and so yea, it wasn't gonna work out. Honestly though I wasn't all that disappointed, I mean I understood why it wouldn't work out and so now we're just friends. Although I think he's been distancing himself from me more so ever since. It's lame but that's life for you, lol, and besides I know that one day I'll meet that "special someone" and my empty heart will finally be filled. Or at least, so I hope. =P
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Post: #647325 , Tue 8 May 12, 9:01PM |
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It's happened so much I just casually tell myself. "It's ok. He's the one missing out on your obsession with purple and he'll never have the experience of being sung "You Can't Stop The Beat" to everyday"
...and from them on I feel like a chirpy birdy.
Unless they are so hot I actually die inside and I'm like "Stuff you for being so hot asshole AND for being taken" then I have this whole FML, it isn't fair, tantrum kind of thing but I eventually get over myself ;P
So yeah. There's half my lifestory
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Edit: Legohead, Tue 8 May 12, 9:53PM
Post: #647341 , Tue 8 May 12, 9:52PM |
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:: Kateri
:: QA6 Livin' it up! | |
The gays I find attractive are always male. (And the women always straight)
It's very inconvenient.
The world is round.
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Post: #647467 , Wed 9 May 12, 4:08AM |
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The problem for me is actually finding gay guys I only know of three or four gay guys at my school. Not interested in any of them (two of them are going out anyways).
You laugh at me because I'm different. I laugh at you because you're all the same.
"Rub that glitter and grease around"
~Lady Gaga
"I'm fierce and I'm feeling mighty. I'm a golden girl, I'm an aphrodite, alright!"
~Kylie Minogue
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Post: #647469 , Wed 9 May 12, 4:17AM |
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:: 4JAVI
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this happens to me with straight people. the good guys are always taken by women.
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Post: #647498 , Wed 9 May 12, 5:54AM |
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:: Kuuipo
:: QA10 Community Goddess | |
There is so much truth to this it literally hurts.
"The past can hurt. You can either run from it or learn from it." ~Rafiki
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Post: #647506 , Wed 9 May 12, 7:45AM |
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I couldn't agree more. Isn't it painful? and sad. They're always taken, or its the wrong timing for them to be taken. ugh...
"Being straight is too mainstream. Being gay sounds better"
"Its always just gonna be the sidelines for a kid who can't find it in themselves to take up the challenge and do something about a problem. Instead of putting them first, why didn't you put yourself first? Now you just lost more than you could have gained"
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Post: #647509 , Wed 9 May 12, 8:05AM |
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