I have no idea where to start, okay so basically I know I like girls and I told my friends I had a relationship with a girl before but I never have, I haven't even had a first kiss. :l so I don't know what to do if I get a date with a girl or a guy. Any suggestions? Or a chat buddy?
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Post: #647052  , Mon 7 May 12, 11:09PM |
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Just do whatever you feel comfortable with. If you get a date, just be yourself, don't be pressured into doing anything you're not comfortable with, and just have fun. There's really nothing I can tell you about what to do if you get a date, it's up to you and what you feel comfortable doing. 
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Post: #647065 , Mon 7 May 12, 11:32PM |
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^ I concur.
Dating a girl isn't that much different to dating a guy.
If they ask you out, they like you for a reason so don't try to pretend to be someone else so that they 'like you more'. Corny but true. 
Oh, and just have fun with it.
Otherwise, there's way too much pressure and you'll both end up feeling really uncomfortable when it should be just about enjoying your time together.
"Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall." - Ralph Waldo Emerson
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Post: #647086 , Mon 7 May 12, 11:50PM |
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Not much else I can add except be careful. There are some bi chicks out there who use you until they find the perfect man and go back to being "straight." It's happened to me... By the by, if you wanna talk, feel free to pm me.
"Peace, Love, Empathy"- Kurt Cobain
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Edit: somebodytoldme, Tue 8 May 12, 12:43AM
Post: #647100 , Tue 8 May 12, 12:42AM |
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• Find a girl (or guy) you like
• who likes you
• and is willing to date you.
• Do fun things together
• and figure out the rest as you go.
• Don't do anything that makes you feel bad about yourself. If someone tries to make you, run.
• If someone makes you happy, try really hard to make them happy back.
• When your heart gets broken (and sooner or later it will, I'm sorry to say), cry and punch pillows and talk to sympathetic friends, but don't take it out on your ex. They won't want to hear it, and it won't make you feel any better.
• Don't kiss anybody unless you've got a strong feeling they would kiss you back. (You will probably be able to tell when it gets to that point.)
...and that's what I've got.
Hearts don't follow the rules of logic.
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Post: #647224 , Tue 8 May 12, 9:43AM |
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Go Splash! Can't top that
But yeah, the thing about saying you've kissed someone... I did that, I went overseas for two months and made up a summer fling which was actually just a friendship, and it took me years to tell my friends really. If I were you I'd tell them straight away, because for me, when I actually had my first kiss it was nothing to my friends because they were all 'well you've done it before-no biggie'... We didn't sit and chit chat about it or anything, because by then I was the last to kiss someone but they thought I already had.. Anyway, the truth is easier to remember ;)
But best of luck!
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Post: #647227 , Tue 8 May 12, 10:24AM |
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Be yourself above all. My best advice? Stop lying about things like that, it just makes things harder in the long run. Most people you will end up in the position to kiss/date really like you and will understand if you don't quite know what you're doing yet. Besides, every relationship is different anyway, no matter how many you have. You'll be constantly learning new things, as will whoever you end up with. Don't stress!
~love everyone~
*writingismyworld*
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Post: #647237 , Tue 8 May 12, 1:12PM |
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All I can suggest is to be yourself. Somebody will like you for who you are. Cause you're beautiful in your own way and for who you are. Hope it all works out for you, if you ever need someone to talk to feel free to pm me
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Post: #647240 , Tue 8 May 12, 1:15PM |
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