For those who identify easily as Gay:
What do you do when someone of the opposite sex hits on you? For arguments sake lets say the person looks perfectly decent, but of course, you are not interested in this girl if you're a gay guy, or this guy, if you're a gay girl.
Are you freaked out? Embarrassed? Amused? Flattered? Indifferent?
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Post: #646483  , Sun 6 May 12, 3:11PM |
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:: Kuuipo
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Mainly indifferent. I'm one of those "OHMYGODLOOKTHERESALESBIAN" type of person. But if it happens I usually just laugh it off, no big deal. x)
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Edit: Kuuipo, Sun 6 May 12, 3:15PM
Post: #646487 , Sun 6 May 12, 3:15PM |
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i think it's funny. their innocence amuses me if they don't know and make a pass at me.
it will be alright in the end, and if it's not alright, it's not the end yet.
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Post: #646507 , Sun 6 May 12, 4:32PM |
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:: al96
:: QA8 High Householder | |
Every time this kind of thing happens, I get a nice boost of self-confidence.
So I guess I'd be flattered, and a little amused of how ironic the situation is...
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Post: #646575 , Sun 6 May 12, 7:00PM |
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:: MrGLaDOS
:: QA5 Having the neighbours round | |
It happens to me all the time, even though I'm obviously queer  I usually just laugh.
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Post: #646628 , Sun 6 May 12, 10:19PM |
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xDDD This has happened about 4 times (probably since I'm only out to anyone who asks). The way I've reacted every time; Raise the eyebrows, give short answers, talk to random other person in the class. OR if I think it's harmless; talk back (the least flirty as possible) and flash every amount of rainbow gear I have possible.
One of the guys wouldn't leave me alone, asked for my number, and kept stalking me on facebook so I finally just told him that I'm a lesbian (in a way that wasn't "stop flirting with me" but more like "I feel like telling you because you're a good person" BS). He finally left me alone and now has the most obnoxious girlfriend. =]
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Post: #646640 , Sun 6 May 12, 10:45PM |
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I usually feel kind of bad, like for some reason it's my fault (even though it clearly isn't). It also sort of frustrates me in an amusing way, because it's like I'd absolutely love to have a boyfriend but don't, yet there are girls who would date me. *sighs*
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Post: #646669 , Sun 6 May 12, 11:58PM |
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:: TMC_Bryan
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It's rather hilarious at times, like when a girl was flirting with me at the supermarket a while back.
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Post: #646888 , Mon 7 May 12, 11:18AM |
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Whenever this happens to me I always seem to become good friends with the guy before it happens. Then it happens out of nowhere... I get really flattered but at the same time I feel terrible because I don't want to hurt the person who likes me. :/ The ones who have said they like me or whatnot, have always been the best guys I have known. :/ I hate that I have to hurt them. :/:/:/
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Post: #646894 , Mon 7 May 12, 12:31PM |
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:: perdedor
:: QA5 Having the neighbours round | |
I'm usually flattered, but then I make it a point to mention my sexuality early on in the conversation, so that my friendliness isn't mistaken as me leading him on.
Of course, most of the guys it happens with are my friends. Which just makes it that much more fun -_-
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Post: #646898 , Mon 7 May 12, 12:44PM |
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:: PDQ2
:: QA7 Taking responsibility | |
I'm usually amused and flattered. I mean I don't think it's disgusting. I think it's pretty cute even though I would never date them 
Sometimes when I see LGBT I just can't help but to think BLT. My mom and I call it the BLT club. :P
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Edit: PDQ2, Mon 7 May 12, 12:54PM
Post: #646900 , Mon 7 May 12, 12:54PM |
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I just take it as a compliment because if you look at me most girls just think I'm one of the "pretty boys" when in actual I play for the other team lol.. but at the same time alittle dissapointing because I always want to have chemistry with a guy and hold a decent conversation that can maybe lead to a date. I guess the only reason why I get sad sometimes is because SO many girls flirt with me but yet I can't find a guy brave enough to ask me out. So I guess im flattered and sad???
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Post: #646919 , Mon 7 May 12, 2:21PM |
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Necro-ing threads are fun.
When this happens to me,I feel like headdesking. They don't seem to get the message now do they? Everytime youre on facebook and he's on he talks to you. Convo goes no where and he still won't stop. What I do is I set them up with other annoying girls and strangely enough,they always seem to hit it off.
And when they even say anything about wanting to have sex with me then I tell them I'm gay and to back the fuck up.
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Edit: Moonstone, Sat 28 Jul 12, 2:59PM
Post: #670627 , Sat 28 Jul 12, 2:35PM |
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:: Puff
:: QA5 Having the neighbours round | |
I think it's actually so funny and amusing when it happens because I don't see how a girl can think I'm straight looking when I'm out or whatever XD I don't tell them but I keep getting more and more flamboyant through the conversation which doesn't always work for some reason... So then when those stupid ones go for the kiss or whatever I'll give a peck and tell them finally that I'm gay... It's just hilarious seeing how long I can keep it going and to mess with them but not in a mean way... Kinda... But I make up for it by being the gay wingman to her so coolies :3
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Post: #670632 , Sat 28 Jul 12, 2:47PM |
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Well, I'm don't think I'm a very obvious gay girl, but I still feel kind of flattered when guys give me attention, as long as it's classy. I also feel guilty because I'm not interested and feel like I deceived them.
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Post: #670634 , Sat 28 Jul 12, 2:51PM |
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Flattered. I love it when it happens cos I can be all flirty back but on the inside I can be "You see this? THIS IS NOT FOR YOU!!! > "
I'm a Loiner, apparently...
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Post: #670636 , Sat 28 Jul 12, 3:10PM |
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I don't get hit on particularly often, but when I do, it's guys, and never girls -__- XD
Whilst I'm flattered when it happens, I always get really nervous. I don't know why :/
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Post: #674150 , Sun 12 Aug 12, 6:50AM |
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I feel mainly indifferent. Sometimes I feel slightly flattered, I guess, although "flattered" is kind of a strong word for it.
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Post: #674152 , Sun 12 Aug 12, 6:58AM |
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I usually laugh in the inside, but I'm grateful enough to have one of my straight friends swoop in, she's a good conversation starter, so the guy always ends up talking to her all night haha.
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Post: #674158 , Sun 12 Aug 12, 7:36AM |
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Mostly I get peeved. But then I only ever get hit on by middle aged drunk guys, so I reckon I've got a right to feel that way. I deal by forming a wall of friends between me and him, then getting out ASAP.
If it were to occur under different circumstances, I'd probably just laugh it off and explain the reason behind the hilarity.
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Post: #674175 , Sun 12 Aug 12, 9:21AM |
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