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Topic: Formerly confused transguy x)
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:: Phoggy
:: QA6 Livin' it up! | |
FIGURED IT OUT.
How the heck to ID, genderwise.
Biogirl, transguy, crossdresser.
Yep. And I felt like posting it, because I saw a feel similar situations around QA.
Myself, I really dislike having a female body. Not that I feel unattractive (quite the opposite, to be honest) with it, it's just... Guh, uncomfortable, weird. I don't really like people knowing I'm girl (except when I'm trying to use a public toilet-- jebus, just make those neutral -_-'), and I don't like having to know it, either.
At the same time, I want to wear pretty things, and makeup. BUT, I usually don't, because it shows proof of femalien (boobs, hips, and just overall femininity).
People have noticed how weird I've been about appearance and stuff, and my mum keeps kind of calling me a gay guy (if only, mom...) and saying that it seems I'm... almost... ASHAMED of being a girl! I think she's onto something, here, folks!
Anyway, yeah. Even before I started questioning gender, I was weird about it. I always volunteered to be the male role in any childhood games (and freaked out when girls tried to change things like "what time is it mr wolf" to "mrs wolf"), and during long car rides would look at my reflection and pretend it was a guy sitting next to me, or make faces that were supposed to be boy faces" (I dunno, I was a weird kid xD)
Also, I realized how my idols relate to this... I used to say I wanted to be Frank N Furter when I grew up (and a bunch of other guys-- never girls), and Brian Molko was my god. Pattern? (brian molko is a guy who likes wearing girls' clothes, because they "fit better" or something, and makeup "for the same reason girls do, to look better"; singer of my favourite band, Placebo)
So yeah, I'm now going by [wannabe-]crossdressing transguy, and already decided on boob-be-gone when I'm older... Besides that, I dunno yet, but it's nice to have a way of identifying, hm?
Confession: I really, really freaking love glitter. SHH! o.o
"I know... that I am very fortunate to have a lady friend, who just happens to have an Adam's Apple."
http://www.fictionpress.com/u/786939/
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Post: #646446  , Sun 6 May 12, 2:17PM |
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Congratulations on figuring it out
Sticks and stones may break my bones
But words might just kill me
If you truly own yourself no one can use you against you~ Chris Colfer 💘
"It's not about who you are attracted to ultimately, it's about who you fall in love with." -Glee
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Post: #646449 , Sun 6 May 12, 2:20PM |
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:: Phoggy
:: QA6 Livin' it up! | |
Thanks 
Confession: I really, really freaking love glitter. SHH! o.o
"I know... that I am very fortunate to have a lady friend, who just happens to have an Adam's Apple."
http://www.fictionpress.com/u/786939/
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Post: #646453 , Sun 6 May 12, 2:25PM |
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Good for you Also, "boob-be-gone" made me giggle.
La clarté étrange de ton sourire illumine mon été.
I wish I were a glow worm, a glow worm's never glum. 'Cause how can you be grumpy when the sun shines out your bum?
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Post: #646489 , Sun 6 May 12, 3:37PM |
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:: Kuuipo
:: QA10 Community Goddess | |
Boob be gone..... xD
Congrats!
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Post: #646501 , Sun 6 May 12, 4:10PM |
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