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:: Prakaash
:: QA4 A spot of tea please, Alfred!
So
What would you tell to 10 year old self??

I would say
"Stop crying!
You are perfect!
Thee people have no right to make you feel miserable ."

because I used to cry a lotEmoticon: Smile :)
Why are people more happy to see two men holding guns against each other than when they are holding hands togethor ??
  Post: #644083 Link to this post, Sat 28 Apr 12, 11:00AM
:: Kuuipo
:: QA10 Community Goddess
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I would tell myself to love who I am and stop worrying abOut what other people thing.
"The past can hurt. You can either run from it or learn from it." ~Rafiki

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  Post: #644085 Link to this post, Sat 28 Apr 12, 11:13AM
:: perdedor
:: QA5 Having the neighbours round
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I'd tell myself to stop wanting to grow up and taking everything for granted.

I really miss those days.
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  Post: #644096 Link to this post, Sat 28 Apr 12, 12:23PM
:: Cutie165
:: QA10 Community Goddess
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I'd tell myself that finding people to talk to is gonna make a lot of things hard. A WHOLE LOT! It's gonna suck bad! Staying and knowing all on your own and not being brave and crazy is worth the mental health rather than being a tornado of destruction for not only yourself but those around you. And... Listen to Melissa Etheridge and Never The Bride they are definitely worth trying at your age.
just give me a reason/just a little bit's enough/just a second, we're not broken/just bent we can learn to love again/oh, it's in the stars/it's been written in the scars on our hearts/we're not broken/just bent we can learn to love again.
  Post: #644098 Link to this post, Sat 28 Apr 12, 12:28PM
:: ChocolateFTWx
:: QA8 High Householder
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Lol there are a lot of things I'd tell the 10 year old me xD

1. Stop obsessing over boys...you're hardly going to fall in love at 10 maybe not even with a boy and also love sucks you don't want it till you're older and it's worth it tbh.

2. Stop wanting to grow up!!! Seriously you don't want puberty or periods xD They such and make you feel like shit and you get moodswings and mehhh it's much easier being 10.

3. You really shouldn't be excited for going to big school that only basically means more exams and having to decide what you want to do when you grow up.

4.SATS are nothing compared to GCSE's and A levels sweetie-.-

5. Don't be worried about moving to secondary school... Even if you don't go with your friends and it's tough at first I promise it'll get better.

5. Please don't fall in love with your best friend... wait the future you already did xD

6. Appreciate life now please you don't have much to worry about yet :')
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  Post: #644099 Link to this post, Sat 28 Apr 12, 12:35PM
:: blacksummer
:: QA10 Community Goddess
Liz is dancing :). [Avatar]
Ten year old me:

You are GAY as fuck.

That is why you liked her.

You just thought you wanted to be FRIENDS with her.

But you didn't.

You are GAY.

That is all.
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  Post: #644104 Link to this post, Sat 28 Apr 12, 1:14PM
:: Legohead
:: QA8 High Householder
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I would tell mysel to hold on, bear through the pain of my home life and look forward the imminent day which I would stand up for myself and run away.

I would have told myself to enjoy being a child as much as I could, even under the circumstances because within 2 years it'll be gone forever and I'll have to grow up so fast.

I would have told myself to be who I was and not to try and suck up to all those around me.

I would have told myself that in fact, I wouldn't have to wait for years and years for the abuse to end, I would say it'll be over soon.

I would have told myself to build up my strength for what I would face in the coming years.

I would have told myself to let it all out, not keep the secrets of what my mum and step-dad were doing to me, to ask for help because no one else will.

I would have told myself to hang in there and keep my sanity, build up my courage and stand tall as I would finally be able to start again.
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  Post: #644110 Link to this post, Sat 28 Apr 12, 1:30PM
:: Jess58
:: QA2 Settling in
I'd probably warn my ten year old self about all the people I thought were cool but turned out to be bitches and tell myself not to be friends with them.

Orrrr maybe that's a bad idea... I'd never learn my lessons that way. I dunno!
  Post: #644111 Link to this post, Sat 28 Apr 12, 1:32PM
:: fortune_cookie
:: QA10 Community God
Saied is busy for a few days [Avatar]
I'd tell myself that even if you don't feel that you really fit in with anyone or connect with anyone that in the future you will.

The feelings of isolation will seize and you will find those who care to listen to your stories and what you've been through. You will find those that care to know.

Speak your mind because you'll find that people listen to what you have to say. People don't notice you because you keep it all bottled up. When you speak up you'll be met with respect. Your voice is a tool. Don't wait until Junior High to really start using it. You'll help a great number of people.

Life plucks out all the weeds and finds you the flowers. Most people suck but you will find the ones that don't. Please stop doubting that there are genuine people in the world.

Your hard academic work will pay off in the future also. Dad pushes you to learn ahead of the school system and it's annoying how obsessive he can be about it, however you will be grateful for the extra push in the future. You are on your way to achieving something great. None of it is pointless. I promise.

Your creative mind is beautiful. Don't stop using it.
"So paint it black and take it back. Let's shout out loud and clear." -"Welcome To The Black Parade" by My Chemical Romance

“Taking the first step with the good thought, the second with the good word, and the third with the good deed, I enter Paradise.”-Persian Proverb
  Edit: fortune_cookie, Sat 28 Apr 12, 2:55PM
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:: Xeffy
:: QA9 Grand Elder
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you dont need these people to tell you who you are because thats for you to decide.
  Post: #644126 Link to this post, Sat 28 Apr 12, 3:16PM
:: JohnS
:: QA2 Settling in
I would say "study even more, dammit!" XD
  Post: #644152 Link to this post, Sat 28 Apr 12, 3:56PM
:: curegirl
:: QA10 Community Goddess
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I would have said "stop being so mean to your mom, and avoid those A minuses in school as much as possible." Emoticon: Tongue :p
When we lose the right to be different, we lose the privilege to be free.
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  Post: #644158 Link to this post, Sat 28 Apr 12, 3:58PM
:: samuel22
:: QA9 Grand Elder
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Nothing because it's because of the way I was bullied at that age I became stronger and made friends and would go through it all again if it meant becoming the person I am now.
What knocks you down in life , can only make you stronger.
  Post: #644174 Link to this post, Sat 28 Apr 12, 4:12PM
:: ClipBanger
:: QA6 Livin' it up!
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Be yourself now, so you don't have to deal with mixed feelings later. :/
  Post: #644181 Link to this post, Sat 28 Apr 12, 4:28PM
:: PandaBubbaXx
:: QA9 Grand Elder
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Get a decent sex education, the video from 1980 you watched will not prepare you for the new school :L

When your older, don't do half of the stuff you think of.

Listen to Kylie. NOW!

Don't say stuff. You know you stick to your word like a bee too honey.

DO. NOT. FALL. IN. LOVE!
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  Post: #644185 Link to this post, Sat 28 Apr 12, 4:48PM
:: Nicole_Love
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(I know this wouldn't make sense to ten year old me, but it makes sense to 14 year old me...)

Say yes to him, even though from experience I know you will.

Cherish him. Do not get involved with the OTHER one.

Do. NOT. Break up with him. It was the biggest mistake of your life. You still have dreams about him when you're 14.

You will be sorry if you do. I wish I had someone to tell me this.

Also: Be careful with HER. She's our best friend to this day, but you will get in a huge fight with her later this year. Let it happen. It will make your bond stronger when she realizes what she's done.

And... YOU'RE AN EFFING ACTRESS. AUDITION FOR THE MUSICAL AND THE PLAY THIS YEAR. DO IT.
The world breaks everyone and afterward many are strong in the broken places. But those that will not break it kills. It kills the very good and the very gentle and the very brave impartially. If you are none of these you can be sure it will kill you too but there will be no special hurry. -Ernest Hemingway
  Edit: Nicole_Love, Sat 28 Apr 12, 5:19PM
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:: Kodii
:: QA1 Just in
To tell myself I'm not fat and to go out there and make more friends!!!
  Post: #644385 Link to this post, Sun 29 Apr 12, 3:20AM
:: slurpyqueen30
:: QA10 Community God
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Not to date Austin Ryan. Worst mistake of fifth grade.
"You can't love someone as much as you can miss them"- John Green, An Abundance of Katherine's
  Post: #644386 Link to this post, Sun 29 Apr 12, 3:23AM
:: 1DecemberNight
:: QA4 A spot of tea please, Alfred!
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Hahahaha @Lizzie, I would say the same thing! I was totally obsessed with a girl in my class.

I would also tell myself that college really is everything I always dreamed it would be. The geeks become the cool kids! Emoticon: Grin :D
  Post: #644391 Link to this post, Sun 29 Apr 12, 3:35AM
:: MrGLaDOS
:: QA5 Having the neighbours round
Simon is alone for a while [Avatar]
That guy likes you back bro! Now go get him.
  Post: #644393 Link to this post, Sun 29 Apr 12, 3:37AM
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