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:: Charmain92
:: QA5 Having the neighbours round
Ok once upon a time I feel deeply in love with my best friend( we will call her Amy for now).So for the longest I was super scared to tell her how I feel because I was afraid of rejection, so now we still talk but not as much as we used to. So I just recently told her I was bi and so she then told me that she was to and then I felt so stupid for not telling her how I felt years ago(and now we live in two different states)plus we hardly talk.

So has something like this ever happened to you and if so what's your story?

p.s of course just because shes bi didn't mean she would have like me however it meant I had some kind of chance.
I am so over labels.

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:: back2back
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Aww this is sad Emoticon: Sad :(( I wish my crush was gay, Ive got my suspicions but... I dont know! I feel like I can act myself, and do 'gay things'/'camp things' around him and he perfectly accepts me, but i dont know whether he is gay or straight. Some of the boys at our school think he is gay, and make some jokes... but i dont know ://

This story has definitely inspired me to possibly confront him Emoticon: Smile :) Im sorry to hear about your and 'Amy's' bad timing! I guess everything happens for a reason?....
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:: weeirdwith2es
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This same exact thing happened to me. In 10th grade, I was crushing on a friend who I had suspicions about, but I never told him. I just assumed he was straight and it'd never work, although he was very friendly with me in strange ways. 2 years later, I barely talk to him anymore and I found out he's bi. And then he broke up with his girlfriend, but I didn't bother pursuing him because we hadn't talked in a long time and I figured he didn't like me like that. Then he joined the army so I'll probably never see him again. =(
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:: Nageuse0357
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This kind of happened to me. There was a girl in my French class who I felt extremely attracted to in an unexplainable way (this was before I realized I was gay, so I couldn't explain it). But she would hug me and I REALLY liked it. After I realized I liked girls I realized I was crushing on her. Then when I came out this year to a mutual friend of ours, he said, oh yeah, of course I'm fine with it. My friend M is bisexual. And I was absolutely shocked. Now she's in college and she actually just got a girlfriend. Oh well :/
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  Post: #643559 Link to this post, Thu 26 Apr 12, 8:46PM
:: Charmain92
:: QA5 Having the neighbours round
Oh wow I thought these kinds of things only happened to me but guess not, but yes everything does happen for a reason so I'm hoping this reason is a really good one or an awesome girlfriend either one would be cool lol.
I am so over labels.

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:: Nageuse0357
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The right one will come along for all of us sometime Emoticon: Smile :) Besides, first crushes rarely are ever last crushes.
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  Post: #643579 Link to this post, Thu 26 Apr 12, 10:06PM
:: Charmain92
:: QA5 Having the neighbours round
Yea I probably wasn't ready for anything serious at the time anyways I had way to many problems going on.
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:: Forrest
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I have had many suspicions of my crushes (yeah, i have a LOT of 'em), but that's probably just my hopefulness of getting in their pants.
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