so there is this guy i met at the office. we are both in our 20s. Hes been pretty flirtatious with me, and he told me i should go and "get my sideburns reshaped". He also complimented my eyes in a weird way. "those blue eyes probably save you" he said. When a coworker heard this he said "uhhh i dont like them but girls do". (i dont know if this guy is gay or not). The person that overheard this said to him "i don't want to have a discussion about how pretty his eyes are" (they were talking about me!) He then changed the topic with the straight co-worker that overheard about pretty female eyes. also, he invited me to lunch and he paid! he also acted shy, i did most of the talking, and he could barely look me in the eye. He doesnt know i am gay either. Also, if i brush up against him, or my arm touches his, he WONT BUDGE (i know people that are not interested/grossed out will pull away). He always passes the touch test. What do you think? am i on to something here? he also talks about different women with co-workers but never me. And if he sees i am overhearing, he watches my reactions closely. He also had an electronic/techo music CD playing in his car when we were going to lunch. He also laughs at EVERY SINGLE one of my lame jokes and will repeat what i say with a genuine laugh
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Edit: nachocheez, Sat 7 Apr 12, 12:00AM
Post: #634586  , Fri 6 Apr 12, 11:51PM |
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awwwww that's so sweet! I hope you guys end up together that's adorable.
"I just want to wake up somewhere and discover that this has all just been a nightmare." - my friend Max
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Post: #634589 , Sat 7 Apr 12, 12:02AM |
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Good luck!
I hope you guys end up together!
Sticks and stones may break my bones
But words might just kill me
If you truly own yourself no one can use you against you~ Chris Colfer 💘
"It's not about who you are attracted to ultimately, it's about who you fall in love with." -Glee
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Post: #634596 , Sat 7 Apr 12, 12:25AM |
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so u think theres a chance
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Post: #634599 , Sat 7 Apr 12, 12:38AM |
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soooo people say were homoerotic. hes never had a gf and if people confront him about not hooking up with girls he says hes not that kinda guy. also when i flirt with him he smiles and laughs and giggles. like, i called him "bruno" (after) the gay character and he just giggled and smiled......what do u think?
Mod Edit: Reworded first sentence so as to remove confusion after this post was merged into the thread
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Edit: winnersmw, Thu 19 Apr 12, 3:45AM
Post: #640707 , Wed 18 Apr 12, 1:02PM |
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:: PDQ2
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Hmmm well you can' really know for sure. But if you're flirting with him and he's acting like that it's kind of a good chance. I would keep doing what you're doing and just see what happens. Sunds like he likes you 
Sometimes when I see LGBT I just can't help but to think BLT. My mom and I call it the BLT club. :P
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Post: #640723 , Wed 18 Apr 12, 2:17PM |
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The only real way to know is to ask around... maybe his friends know.
sorry to say but gaydar only works through estimation and hypothesis. its not based in fact 
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Post: #640754 , Wed 18 Apr 12, 4:52PM |
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http://youtu.be/Cmk4YHnegsE?t=3m18s
To summate: Just ask him, use your words! He sounds totally interested, and cute. Go for it
"I am reminded of a colleague who reiterated 'all my homosexual patients are quite sick'—to which I finally replied 'so are all my heterosexual patients'." -Ernest van den Haag, psychotherapist
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Edit: winnersmw, Wed 18 Apr 12, 8:45PM
Post: #640809 , Wed 18 Apr 12, 8:37PM |
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I would be CAREFUL! haha, we have ALL have crushes on straights, or people who we think are straights but not sure are gay! You may want to find out more information! )
If you get the confidence, just ask him! Communication is the best way to come around the situation!
Interviewer: According to you, the girls run the world - but what do you think about the girls and the gays teaming up and running the world together?
Beyoncé: Well, that's what I meant when I said girls. (Laughs)
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Post: #640812 , Wed 18 Apr 12, 8:46PM |
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Yeah, just ask him. Or keep doing what you're doing, flirt & put your mack on & keep watching his reaction. After you guys get close enough, you might be able to ask.
I love you! Yeah, you! Thanks for being you!
“When you rise in the morning, give thanks for the light, for your life, for your strength. Give thanks for your food and for the joy of living. If you see no reason to give thanks, the fault lies in yourself.” --TECUMSEH
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Post: #640828 , Wed 18 Apr 12, 9:37PM |
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this is the guy that took me out to lunch, paid for it, and acted really shy and couldnt look me in the eye! it made me think he didnt like me
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Post: #640943 , Thu 19 Apr 12, 2:16AM |
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^Sounds like he likes you so much that he feels nervous around you. Also, that sounds like a date x3 Maybe he thought the same thing and felt even more nervous.
"I am reminded of a colleague who reiterated 'all my homosexual patients are quite sick'—to which I finally replied 'so are all my heterosexual patients'." -Ernest van den Haag, psychotherapist
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Post: #640985 , Thu 19 Apr 12, 3:38AM |
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also hes been ignoring me a little bit lately! im like wtf. he also did the famous "you're so weird!" are these indicators of interest?
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Edit: nachocheez, Thu 19 Apr 12, 2:18PM
Post: #641077 , Thu 19 Apr 12, 2:09PM |
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a friend said he loves me.... later i said to this some friend "i can tell hes in love with me" and she said "ummm (like not sure)" then she said "i think you like him back. What does it mean?!?! lol
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Post: #641819 , Sun 22 Apr 12, 2:45AM |
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well hes been hanging around me alot and listening to me talk, like, he'll come and say bye, ect. hes been asking me out to lunch alot and saying "we should go see that movie" stuff like that.......
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Post: #642816 , Tue 24 Apr 12, 3:49AM |
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:: Puff
:: QA5 Having the neighbours round | |
100% Gay. But more importantly into you ;) Go to the movie and just kiss him and see ;) Go wild like a little 13 year old kid And you know he likes you and considering your posts, I think you like him too
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Post: #642819 , Tue 24 Apr 12, 3:55AM |
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he also said "see ya!" directly too me after we were all talking in a big crowd. he tells me about stuff he does with his family, ect. He was also making jokes about my penis size.... i think our mutual friend told him i think he loves me. but he seemed super friendly, and came to talk to me as he was leaving.
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Edit: nachocheez, Tue 24 Apr 12, 4:04AM
Post: #642824 , Tue 24 Apr 12, 4:03AM |
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:: Puff
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Do we really need this title anymore?
How bout you ask him somewhere? He might be nervous cos he doesn't know where you're at and is looking for an indication before making a move?
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Post: #642827 , Tue 24 Apr 12, 4:06AM |
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i said i was about to watch a movie, and he cut me off and said "i thought you were gonna say watch some man on man!" was this a flirt?
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Post: #642829 , Tue 24 Apr 12, 4:08AM |
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:: Puff
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Ok, how about you stop being an idiot and just tell him you're gay and ask him if he is when you are away from your peers at work? 
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Post: #642830 , Tue 24 Apr 12, 4:11AM |
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