We met online at OK Cupid, he messaged me after seeing we are in the same course this year at uni.
So we met up in real life today, at the mall and went to the movies. It was really strange first meeting him, I was outside the bank, and all these random people kept walking in because, well its a bank. And I didn't know which one he was because no one ever looks like their picture. Then this short guy walks in and hes looking around and I'm like, its him. Hes totally fucking adorable and funny and sweet.
We talked for ages about everything and nothing. Then brought tickets to the movie but were given the wrong ones and saw something else. Lol
Then we had dinner at BK and I hugged him when we went to the car. Not sure if thats ruined it or not D; im really scared. But I text him and said thanks for a lovely night. I had heaps of fun 
and he said "yeh was great i enjoyed it too..." and seperate text "Nighty nite"
He didnt seem like atlking to much but it was only like 10.30pm ish.
Do you think I've ruined it? I really want to go out wiht him more. I love his company and hes really sweet.
D;
-Sam xx
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Post: #621198  , Thu 23 Feb 12, 9:53AM |
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I don't think you have ruined it, maybe he is justing having nerves or feels as you do at the moment.
Why don't you try calling him and arranging to meet up again?
It might just be he is hesitant but try not to get yourself too upset xoxo
I am me, I am myself, if you don't like, then you don't like me
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Post: #621199 , Thu 23 Feb 12, 10:55AM |
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Nah, you definitely didn't ruin anything. His texts sounded very nice, so why don't you just ask him to go out with you one more time? Movies, bars, at home, whatever you'd like ^^
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Post: #621204 , Thu 23 Feb 12, 1:01PM |
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He hasn't really been talking much lately. He does seem to be busy, but I've sent texts today and had no reply, its 5.40pm here right now. I'm getting really obsessed with him and want to see him and talk to him all the time, even though we've met once D; wtf do I do.
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Post: #622237 , Sun 26 Feb 12, 4:40AM |
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You should just ask him. Usually straight up is the way to go. I don't think a hug would mess things up.
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Post: #622282 , Sun 26 Feb 12, 5:58AM |
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A hug shouldn't mess it up, I wouldn't think. And if it does, then is that really the type of person you want to get serious with?
I'd call and let him know that you really enjoyed meeting/seeing him last whenever, and you'd love it if you could do something with him again. He'll either agree and you can go out with him again, gauge what he's feeling, etc.; or he'll say no and that'll be your answer.
Good luck!
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Post: #622343 , Sun 26 Feb 12, 8:47AM |
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a hug REALLY shouldn't have messed it up....or I would be in BIG trouble haha. On the past few first dates I usually do a bit more than hug....but that's a story not for QA.
You should be fine... text him again (not over and over again like you're desperate) and try for a second date.
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Post: #622439 , Sun 26 Feb 12, 4:44PM |
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I've been trying to forget about it, but hes always on my mind lately. I saw him at uni yesterday, and it was great to see his face again. Even if it was for a moment. Then I started to miss him as soon as he left. All night I couldnt stop thinking about him, and I kept waking up at night feeling sad. Then today I saw him walk past my lecture room but I dont think he saw me, then I saw him later on in the quad. He said last night he'd text me but he never did all day, even though I sent texts. He could have forgotten his phone or something but its still really saddening me not being able to talk to him. And uni was really stressful today, with an 8.30am start, I had to wake just after 5 because it takes me quite a long time to get there. So I was tired and stressed and lonely and sad and just burst into tears in the car from the train station. I feel like abolute shit all over and I dont even know if its about him anymore, although I really still want to be with him, its starting to look less likely that anything will happen because I cant tell if hes avoiding me or what.
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Post: #623206 , Tue 28 Feb 12, 3:56AM |
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