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Sam

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So this guy I met online, has been giving me mixed messages. He tries to initiate sext conversations, then we talk about him wanting to come out etc...
Next day he tells me he loves his girlfriend too much but wants to be bi. Then texts me more and ends messages with xx and hug kiss etc..

I really like him, but he says the same sometimes and its confusing me. What should I do?

Post: #578543

, Sun 27 Nov 11, 5:38AM

Tenacity/Nate

:: Tenacity
:: QA4 A spot of tea please, Alfred!

How long have you been talking to this guy?

And how serious do you think he is with his girlfriend?
No matter how much you like him, and no matter how much you want to help him with coming out and everything, you have to consider the fact that he's kindof cheating on her..
Do you really want to be that boy?
Do you think that he likes you enough to leave his girlfriend for you and embrace his sexuality?
It sounds like he likes you. But it also sounds like he might be using you to experiment..? I've been on both ends of that rope in the past, and it's not pretty.
Play it safe and trust your judgement though!

"It's really not about being gay or ungay, it's about being yourself in a patriarchal, heterocentric, heteronormative, monotheistic world. It's always the changing question and answer..." Bianca Casady of CocoRosie

Post: #578546

, Sun 27 Nov 11, 6:00AM

Rose

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:: QA1 Just in

In a situation like that usually its better not to waste to much time on the person. Because someone thats indecisive about their sexuality, is in a relationship, and that was met online is not the best person to pursue.

Post: #578556

, Sun 27 Nov 11, 6:19AM

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