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:: BigGayBear
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Hey Yall! Been a while since I wrote one of these! Emoticon: Gasp :o

If you could come out all over again, would you? And if so, would you change anything?

I would, and I wouldn't let the guy I came out to first know I liked him Emoticon: Smile :)
I'm a Loiner, apparently...
  Post: #572204 Link to this post, Wed 9 Nov 11, 6:09PM
:: AdamJJW
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hell no! it was bad enough the first time, i couldn't do it again.
if i had to, i'd change the order of who i came out to though.
it will be alright in the end, and if it's not alright, it's not the end yet.
  Post: #572208 Link to this post, Wed 9 Nov 11, 6:42PM
:: pigeon309
:: QA8 High Householder
XD I would do it more calmly, now that I know most people are fine with it, and I would ignore the paranoid fears that my wonderful ultra-liberal atheist parents might kick me out.
  Post: #572209 Link to this post, Wed 9 Nov 11, 6:42PM
:: kelsey
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Definitely. Mainly because I would probably just tell my mom the minute I started dating my first girlfriend. That way I wouldn't feel so secretive and what not.
  Post: #572740 Link to this post, Fri 11 Nov 11, 1:37PM
:: Random91
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Haha honestly I don't think so it was hard enough the first time xD
Wanting to be someone else is a waste of who you are
Kurt Cobain

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  Post: #572765 Link to this post, Fri 11 Nov 11, 3:25PM
:: sukisyokitty
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I came out as bi first, which is fair enough considering I was still trying to find my identity. I wouldn't delete that part of the coming out process altogether, but I would tell my parents in person instead of by text. I don't know why I was so scared to!
I also wouldn't let someone else tell most of my friends. I wish that time had been more personal, even if it didn't really matter.
"It's better to be hated for what you are than loved for what you're not"
~ Kurt Cobain
  Post: #572843 Link to this post, Fri 11 Nov 11, 8:13PM
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