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Topic: More gay than straight, or more straight than gay?
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This is a question for all you fabulous bisexuals. <3 I'm just curious to know of like... who has an equal attraction and who leans more toward one side or another, ya know? <3
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Post: #524882  , Mon 4 Jul 11, 12:27AM |
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:: ahoycamry
:: QA4 A spot of tea please, Alfred! | |
i'm kinda weird. i'll go months being more gay than straight, and think i'm a lesbian, but then i'll go have a bout of more straight than gay. it's confusing. 
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Post: #524891 , Mon 4 Jul 11, 12:50AM |
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:: CH7i5
:: QA4 A spot of tea please, Alfred! | |
Same for me, it switches every now and then. But it is normally around 50/50 and never goes more than 60/40 each way.
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Post: #524893 , Mon 4 Jul 11, 12:53AM |
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I'll go all over the place, sometimes 80/20, then 20/80, then I think I'm completely lesbian, then totally straight. It drives me crazy.
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Post: #524897 , Mon 4 Jul 11, 1:07AM |
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:: ZeroHead
:: QA5 Having the neighbours round | |
I agree with everyone. I switch off every couple weeks/months. Not like clockwork, it just happens.
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Post: #524903 , Mon 4 Jul 11, 1:19AM |
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:: Tiara
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More gay when it comes to physical attraction and stuff, but emotional is 50/50
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Post: #524904 , Mon 4 Jul 11, 1:21AM |
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:: Ryko
:: QA6 Livin' it up! | |
I still don't really know if I'm gay or bi yet but so far more gay than straight! 
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Post: #524914 , Mon 4 Jul 11, 1:49AM |
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I don't feel the same way about girls and guys. I know I'm bi, because I def like both, but I've nevr gotten nervous standing in the same room with a girl I like, while I've actually gotten stuttery and shaky with guys. But I've only felt the same warm happy feeling I get with girls with one guy, so, idk.
Not really answering the question ^ but I don't know how to compare the two.
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Post: #525062 , Mon 4 Jul 11, 5:29AM |
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I know I'm not straight because I've definitely had feelings for a girl before, but I don't think I'm a lesbian because I've been with guys before and I get that fluttery feeling you get when you love someone. It's very confusing at some times. :/
Live the life, not the lifestyle
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Post: #525610 , Tue 5 Jul 11, 10:48PM |
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I liked reading this and all the answers  It is super confusing sometimes.
Although, I'm going to have to say that I'm probably more straight than gay. I've had many more guy crushes than girl crushes before, although I do go through phases where guys just disgust me all together, and then I can't fathom being gay.
It all just seems to come and go.
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Post: #525628 , Tue 5 Jul 11, 11:58PM |
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i would say more gay than straight. i mean, i'm not aroused by the thought of sex with just any guy (By this i mean, not just any guy i feel attracted to), but i am with the thought of sex with any girl who is attractive. It's on a sexual and emotional level to me.
I only really count one boyfriend i've had, because i feel like every subsequent boyfriend i've had since him has just been an attempt to get over him.
Like i don't have feelings for any other guys, except this one guy.
I've dated one girl, she was beautiful. I'm not sure i felt so much of a connection, but it's a difficult thing to find truly lesbian/bisexual girls at my school or even in my area, around my age...
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Post: #525773 , Wed 6 Jul 11, 6:26AM |
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with the attraction thing i think i'm 90% gay. But i look/act(sort of) like a straight guy
keep moving forward
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Post: #526256 , Thu 7 Jul 11, 4:19PM |
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I'm way more gay than straight. I mean, boys are nice, they are fun and don't have some of the things girls have to deal with.
"If wishes were fishes, I'd give you the sea."
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Post: #526259 , Thu 7 Jul 11, 4:46PM |
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As the people above me have said, it really just varies. At the moment, I'm more gay than straight (probably about 65-70% gay at the moment, if that makes any sense.)
“We are all a little weird and life's a little weird, and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love.” - Dr. Seuss
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Edit: OsakaBaka, Thu 7 Jul 11, 11:49PM
Post: #526432 , Thu 7 Jul 11, 11:49PM |
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I'd say I'm more gay than straight. I suppose that's just because being with a straight guy scares me for reasons I'm not going into. I do like androgynous boys more than anything though. But of course girls are girls and girls are beautiful.
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Post: #526460 , Fri 8 Jul 11, 1:41AM |
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I'm more gay than straight, but I still find guys attractive lol
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Post: #526487 , Fri 8 Jul 11, 4:36AM |
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:: Chestnut
:: QA5 Having the neighbours round | |
Right now, I'd say it's pretty even, and if not, then 60/40 towards straight, just due to my relationship. I've been dating a guy for 2 years, and I love him dearly, but that doesn't stop me from noticing the same women that he does. And, honestly, most of my "dream relationships" are with girls. Very few involve men. Some people think that their dreams aren't worth much, but to me, mine are pretty drastic things.
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Post: #526497 , Fri 8 Jul 11, 4:58AM |
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Interesting responses. x3 Thanks guys.
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Post: #534500 , Sat 30 Jul 11, 1:01AM |
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Well, I like boys more often than girls, but EVERY guy I've ever liked has been really flamboyant, and the girls have all been like, more girly than most girls... So I think I might be more lesbian than straight in some ways, and vice-versa in others. 
The world breaks everyone and afterward many are strong in the broken places. But those that will not break it kills. It kills the very good and the very gentle and the very brave impartially. If you are none of these you can be sure it will kill you too but there will be no special hurry. -Ernest Hemingway
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Post: #534508 , Sat 30 Jul 11, 1:20AM |
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:: Rhee
:: QA6 Livin' it up! | |
Personally, it depends for me. (And warning, I might ramble a bit with this one.) I find it depends who I'm attracted to at the time. When I had a crush on a guy, I felt a lot more straight than gay, but with the crush I have on a girl now, it makes me feel more gay than straight.
Therefore, I tend to keep the opinion that I'm in the middle, because it only varies with who I like at the time.
However, there's one thing that always throws me for a loop when I try to think about it.
Guy on guy = hot
Guy on girl = hot
Girl on girl = Sometimes hot, but sometimes weirds me out a bit, too.
Which really, is ridiculous because I KNOW I'm not straight, but it seems to indicate me being more straight than gay? But then again, I'm not sure it actually has to do with being girl on girl as much as other vaguely related factors, that I don't need to get into right now.
tl;dr I consider myself right in the middle, though it seems to depend on who I'm attracted to at the time. (Oh, and I'm actually pan, not bi, but w/e.)
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Post: #534510 , Sat 30 Jul 11, 1:21AM |
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