:: Tiwaz87
:: QA4 A spot of tea please, Alfred! | |
There's a girl that I like very much. We've been friends for awhile, and yesterday we hung out in the park together for several hours. It was awkward at first, but then we started holding hands and, *blush* she gave me my first kiss (we were standing on a bridge in the park on a ridiculously bright and sunny day; it was adorable). I really want to ask her out again, but there's a few problems. First of all, her mom is crazy-homophobic. If she caught us, she would be in HUGE trouble and we'd probably get banned from ever hanging out again. Secondly, since we're so young and can't drive and whatnot, our options our rather limited when it comes to places to go/things to do.
So (getting to the point finally), does anyone have any ideas for...dates, I guess? Or whatever it is that 14 year-olds do? I'd like to do something special (possibly go somewhere where we could be alone if we wanted to), but something that "just friends" can do too (movies, mall, etc.), to keep her mom from getting suspicious. What should we do?
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Post: #510916  , Tue 24 May 11, 5:34AM |
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:: Jaye
:: QA8 High Householder | |
I was never good at ideas for dates, I usually stick with the classic "dinner & a movie".
Also, any activities near your area is good (like, I have an ice rink nearby - not that I use it much...)
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And finally:
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Post: #510928 , Tue 24 May 11, 7:27AM |
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Bowling or a picnic although that may be a bit harder for you to cover up or maybe ice skating, I don't know I'd need to know more about where you're from to give you more ideas, but generall if you're both interested in it then it is a good place to start, my mate had her first date with her boyfriend at the zoo for instance.
"If a writer falls in love with you, you will never be forgotten."
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Post: #510940 , Tue 24 May 11, 10:22AM |
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I think, a date would basically entitle you two going out somewhere together and having fun.
I mean, this could even be somewhere you two go usually, e.g. a game arena or ice rink or even a park.
When I was in the military they gave me a medal for killing two men and a discharge for loving one. ~Epitaph of Leonard P. Matlovich
If gay and lesbian people are given civil rights, then everyone will want them! ~Author unknown
Why is it that, as a culture, we are more comfortable seeing two men holding guns than holding hands? ~Ernest Gaines
War. Rape. Murder. Poverty. Equal rights for gays. Guess which one the Southern Baptist Convention is protesting? ~The Value of Families
Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind. ~Dr. Seuss
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Post: #510949 , Tue 24 May 11, 11:35AM |
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:: Kale
:: QA4 A spot of tea please, Alfred! | |
Yeah, I agree, something like dinner and a movie, it's casual and nice, especially with just the two of you.
In regards to the mum, I've had a similar situation, just see how it goes, and try not to raise suspicion.
Two girls going to the movies together isn't exactly seen as gay, in todays world, not in my experience anyway.
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Post: #510951 , Tue 24 May 11, 12:16PM |
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:: Tiwaz87
:: QA4 A spot of tea please, Alfred! | |
Thanks everyone. I just wish we had something interesting here...*lives in the absolute middle of nowhere*
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Post: #510999 , Tue 24 May 11, 3:57PM |
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