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Topic: Guys, would you date a FtM person?
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I know that I myself don't like the term much.. to me, what someone is internally, they are outside. It's not 'This to this' or 'that to that'.
My point, anyways, is would any of you guys date a boy born in a girls body? Would they have to have a full sex change already, or would you except them for their internal appearance regardless of outward appearance?
I myself would, if I met the right person.
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Post: #444186  , Thu 9 Dec 10, 6:12AM |
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I really have no idea. It all just depends on the situation. I think if I didn't know and I fell for the person and then found out it would be less of a dive. Just knowing right away would cause me to put up a wall I think so...just depends I suppose.
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Post: #444197 , Thu 9 Dec 10, 8:59AM |
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i'm not a guy, so i hope you won't mind me replying.
in my experience, i find that many people tend to suddenly change opinions of me when they learn i am "mtf". it seems like people base their idea of someone based on their birth sex, and that they should adhere to the stereotypes construed with them.
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Post: #444205 , Thu 9 Dec 10, 11:03AM |
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In my situation as a mtf, my partner knew me before i started my transition and not only is she still with me, she is extremely supportive of my transition. I feel so very lucky to have someone who loves me so much and willing to help me threw my transition.
So i know there has to be male partners out there willing to do the same for someone ftm.
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Post: #444245 , Thu 9 Dec 10, 5:32PM |
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I'd be fine with it, I think I'd prefer to date a boy born in a girl's body to a girl born in a boy's body. I'm not 100% sure why, but I just would.
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Post: #444266 , Thu 9 Dec 10, 7:35PM |
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:: nicky25997
:: QA4 A spot of tea please, Alfred! | |
I am going to sound really nieve here, but what exactly is ftm and mtf? Is that like a man dressing like a woman or is that a man who becomes a woman?
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Post: #444271 , Thu 9 Dec 10, 7:51PM |
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I think it mean male to female and female to male
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Post: #444279 , Thu 9 Dec 10, 8:13PM |
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nicky
FtM = "female to male", transgendered individual.
MtF = "male to female", transgendered individual.
There are lies and there is truth and art always tells the truth. Even when it's lying.
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Post: #444280 , Thu 9 Dec 10, 8:13PM |
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:: nicky25997
:: QA4 A spot of tea please, Alfred! | |
Thanks guys. After I posted, I was thinking about it and thats what I thought it must mean. My cousin likes to wear make-up and sometimes a wig, so I guess that would make him an FtM, I think
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Post: #444284 , Thu 9 Dec 10, 8:16PM |
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Isn't there a difference between drag and emotional gender? I'm not sure...
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Post: #444286 , Thu 9 Dec 10, 8:17PM |
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@Joe; Yup! Some people actually just like cross-dressing. Myself, for instance, was literally just born in the wrong body.
Some people are also just beyond normal stereotypes; i.e. a very butch girl, or a very feminine guy. But they aren't all born in the wrong body.
When I say 'born in the wrong body' I don't mean someone who just likes cross-dressing or has a non-'normal' personality.
I myself know for a fact I should have been born a boy, but nature messed up and I was born into a girls body.
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Post: #444340 , Thu 9 Dec 10, 9:35PM |
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:: nicky25997
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Oh, so that would mean that my cousin isn't a MtF. He just likes wearing the make up and wig
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Post: #444345 , Thu 9 Dec 10, 9:37PM |
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Some kids ask if I want to be a girl and I say most certainly not =D
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Post: #444346 , Thu 9 Dec 10, 9:37PM |
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:: nicky25997
:: QA4 A spot of tea please, Alfred! | |
Strangers used to think I was a girl (as recent as three weeks ago) because I used to have long hair. But I got it cut about two weeks ago. It's strange because I'm used to having long hair.
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Post: #444350 , Thu 9 Dec 10, 9:41PM |
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:: JayD
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of course I would if I were attracted to who they were both physically and emotionally
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Post: #444386 , Thu 9 Dec 10, 10:36PM |
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:: dayman
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defiantly, no question about it, I LOVE ftms
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Post: #444793 , Sat 11 Dec 10, 6:05AM |
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:: majic.s.c.
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"When I say 'born in the wrong body' I don't mean someone who just likes cross-dressing or has a non-'normal' personality.
I myself know for a fact I should have been born a [gay] boy, but nature messed up and I was born into a girls body."
. . . you're complicated. 
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Edit: majic.s.c., Mon 13 Dec 10, 7:01PM
Post: #445536 , Mon 13 Dec 10, 5:56PM |
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I agree with you on not liking the whole FTM thing. I am one but I prefer just regular male words, or transgender if one must.
Let's see here. For me it's tricky because I'm about 99% straight, but open-minded t the possibility of any eventual attration to guys, no matter their body.
Honestly, I'd worry that despite my own situation I would not know what to do. Let's say the individual is pre-everything. It would be difficult for me, because I am attracted to female bodies, and almost always more so than any male bodies. (My attraction to male bodies is a lot centered on wishing, actually.) So I would feel like a sort of bad person knowing how it would make me feel if someone wanted me for the female body I feel disconnected with. My girlfriend is straight. She is attracted to me, but it seems that her attraction to my body developed after loving my soul, which is okay with me, as long as she sees me as a guy and treats me that way, which she always has.
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Post: #445614 , Mon 13 Dec 10, 11:29PM |
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I'm not a gay guy, but I figured it wouldn't hurt to give my two cents. 
I'm a (complicated) lesbian and I actually wouldn't mind being with a ftm. In a way it's kinda sexy. Just sayin.
If they wanted to get the full sex change done, it would have to be a very special person for me to continue with.
"Have you ever fucked a girl?"
"No."
"Then how do you know you like girls?"
"Have you ever fucked a guy?"
"Well, no."
"Then how do you know you like guys?"
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Post: #445616 , Mon 13 Dec 10, 11:35PM |
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I'm a bisexual girl, and my two cents would be this: Falling in love is something that happens. It happens between two people, not two genders, or two gender-expressions, or whatever. So yeah, if the person was cool, I'd be up for dating them, getting to know and love them, same as any guy/girl/ftm/mtf/I don't care. I like people, especially those with tales to tell. I can't understand why it would be an issue.
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