:: AFRObaby
:: QA4 A spot of tea please, Alfred! | |
Hey geys~
So i'm in a relationship with a trans (FTM. no surgery or pills taken) and i'm going to be a second year highschool student. He's going into his first year of college.
We both love eachother.
We've been together going on 3 months.
He's going to college near by and living in the same house.
but i still feel like we'll eventually drift apart and go our seperate ways.
I'm taking classes 5 days a week.
He's taking classes 2 days a week.
This is the most meaningful relationship i've ever had.
It's real.
We talk about a future together, we discuss wedding plans, argue about the names of our kids, even what furniture we'll have in our house!
and yet.. i can't fight the feeling that he'll just leave me in college. for some girl who is more convienient to spend time with.
I feel so alone already....
he doesn't no...
what do i do?
is it wrong of me to feel like this?
am i being selfish?
WILL our relationship fade into nothingness?
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Post: #413266  , Sat 31 Jul 10, 6:39PM |
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You shouldn't end a relationship that means a lot to you just 'cause you're afraid the other half is going to leave you first. If you think the relationship is worth it, you'll work on it. Try not to get so scared by the hypothetical.
Consider yourself lucky that you don't have to work out an extreme, long distance relationship. Distance usually kills relationships, no matter how strong they originally were.
But no, I don't think it's inevitable. Unless you've given up already.
Emmett: What kind of homosexual are you?
Brian: The kind that fucks men.
- Queer As Folk
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Post: #413295 , Sat 31 Jul 10, 8:05PM |
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:: lena
:: QA10 Community God | |
You should listen to Jesse. If you spend too much time thinking about your relationship ending, you might accidentally cause the end. It sounds like you two have a good and close relationship, and if you continue to see each other and communicate well, there's no reason for things to change too much. Yes, it will be harder with him in college, but if you work at, you can still have a solid relationship.
I've been thinking about hell, and it's got to be a much nicer place than heaven... all the gay men are down there. You KNOW it's well decorated.
If being gay is a disease, lets all call in queer to work. "Sorry, cannot come to work today, still queer".
Real Lord of the Rings fans know it's not a trilogy.
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Post: #413436 , Sun 1 Aug 10, 6:01AM |
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:: AFRObaby
:: QA4 A spot of tea please, Alfred! | |
thank you Jesse and Lena!! i should really have more faith in our relationship >.< whatever happens, happens. i shuld just go with the flow~ <3 <3 <3
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Post: #413527 , Sun 1 Aug 10, 5:48PM |
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