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The first person I told took it great. She said she did not care and I should think of coming out to more of my friends and they shouldn't care if they really are my friends. As of now six of my friends know.
  Post: #386298 Link to this post, Sun 9 May 10, 8:14PM
:: emptyland
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She was bisexual too, so she's really supportive.
Emoticon: Grin :D
  Post: #386300 Link to this post, Sun 9 May 10, 8:23PM
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My sister took it well, it was kind of weird when she said it was cool that she had a bisexual sister. XD I wish my parents wouldve felt the same.
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  Post: #386302 Link to this post, Sun 9 May 10, 8:35PM
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The first person I came out to was a girl from my middle school. We weren't close friends at that time.

Well, she was shocked at first, she told me she could have never imagined that if I didn't tell her. But she was ok with that and promised me not to tell anybody. Then we became really close friends thanks to my coming out haha
  Post: #386306 Link to this post, Sun 9 May 10, 8:50PM
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When I was 10, I seriously fell in love with a girl. (It was my first love....)

I went to my granny's house on holiday,

and suddenly granny asked me:

"What kinda guy do u wanna marry when u grow up honey?"

So I answered:

"Oh I don't have any guys in my mind. I am in love with a girl. I'm going to live with her when I grow up."

Then granny, a divout Catholic, hit the ceiling and barked:

"That's what the God condemned as abominable! That's what He hates the most! That is 'homo'!"

....ugh


Now every one of my family members think I'm straight, and that my first 'coming out' was just a 'phase'
  Edit: caesaris, Sun 9 May 10, 8:51PM
Post: #386307 Link to this post, Sun 9 May 10, 8:50PM
:: vinny100
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lets seeeee i first came out to my str8 friend from middle school , who happend to be president of her HS GSA lol so she took it very well and was great support, i emailed her xD

i first came out as a transman to my internet friend, who was really awesome at the time he was very proud of me, and then stopped talking to me, after he figured out i didnt like him lke that lol
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  Post: #386310 Link to this post, Sun 9 May 10, 8:59PM
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She didn't care Emoticon: Smile :) she said that she was proud of me and was happy that she wa te first person I told.
  Post: #386312 Link to this post, Sun 9 May 10, 9:00PM
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i told my 2 bff's at the same time.
the acted supportive and understanding, but they arent.i cant bring it up around them.they are very conservative and believe that i need "help".It's really frustrating but the other 7 people have been amazing and haven't judged me. most are trying to get me to tell my parents, they want me to be happy.
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She basically said "Oh. I don't really care. I have a couple other gay friends too."
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  Post: #386319 Link to this post, Sun 9 May 10, 9:13PM
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Haha, well, the reaction was pretty much shock/disbelief.

It's weird cuz I was suuuuch a dyke in HS. Wore baggy clothes, talked about how sexy girls were, skateboarded, you know.

I think it may have been because I was so open about things, that the idea that I had not been open about that was shocking to people.

But she didn't mind, of course, once she realized I wasn't just saying it as a joke/for fun ;).
  Post: #386320 Link to this post, Sun 9 May 10, 9:15PM
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First person I told was a teacher I had.
She gave me a big hug and was totally okay with it.
She's amazing. xD
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  Post: #386323 Link to this post, Sun 9 May 10, 9:18PM
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the first person i came out to was my cat...
she was very supportive and her reaction was somewhere along the lines of *purr* *purr*
its great to know that my pet isnt homophobic. Emoticon: Grin :D
don't assume I'm straight and i won't assume your gay. :)
  Post: #386329 Link to this post, Sun 9 May 10, 9:33PM
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Pets are amazing arn't they? ^^
  Post: #386334 Link to this post, Sun 9 May 10, 9:43PM
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so heres the story.... my friend steph came out to me one day and i got really upset for some reason. but then that same night i realized that i was bisexual too. and i had a crush on her. i told her that... and she got creeped out and stopped talking to me... i was in love with her. ruined my life for a good 2 years :/
  Post: #386335 Link to this post, Sun 9 May 10, 9:45PM
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The first person I came out to was like, "I KNEW IT!" She wasn't really surprised since I kept eyeing up guys and whatnot. She took it really well.
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  Post: #386343 Link to this post, Sun 9 May 10, 10:11PM
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She was my best friend for seven years and she was completely and utterly disgusted. To make a long story short we aren't friends anymore.
  Post: #386364 Link to this post, Sun 9 May 10, 11:46PM
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At first I came out as bisexual; it was my friend Katie. xD She said that it was super hot and giggled incessantly. xD
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  Post: #386369 Link to this post, Sun 9 May 10, 11:55PM
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well it was my mom and well her sister is a lesbian and so she took it pritty well but she thinks its a phase
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  Post: #386371 Link to this post, Mon 10 May 10, 12:01AM
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First person I told was my best friend Kira...she told me she thought she might be bi too. xD Unexpected reactions for the win!
  Post: #386374 Link to this post, Mon 10 May 10, 12:15AM
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Hmmm well my friends were really surprised and kind of freaked out, but good about it later. Thank god.
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