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:: LeShaker
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If it was someone I knew would take it well, I'd be honest with them. Other than that, if it was someone I didn't really know all too well, or knew might not be okay with it, I'd most likely say no.
  Post: #378542 Link to this post, Mon 19 Apr 10, 7:11AM
:: rawwrwriter91
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i would tell the truth. i made that promise to myself once i came out to both of my parents that i would never deny who i was. hell i would probably even tell my grandparents if they asked me flat out but i know they never would. thats where my cowardice comes in though, because i wouldnt tell them unless i was getting married or they asked me.
The Bible contains six admonishments to homosexuals and 362 admonishments to heterosexuals. That doesn't mean that God doesn't love heterosexuals. It's just that they need more supervision. ~Lynn Lavner
  Post: #378569 Link to this post, Mon 19 Apr 10, 11:31AM
:: theotherside
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Well I'm a wrestler, and I don't want it getting out in the wrestling world. I don't want to have to worry about girls not wanting to fight me.

But outside the wrestling world, I'd tell just about anyway. I'm only out to a few people, just because I don't go announcing it. But if anyone asked, unless I had a good reason not to tell them (like I knew they were homophobic), I'd answer honestly.
Keep your religion out of my bedroom, and I won't have sex in your church.

Don't assume I'm straight, and I won't assume you're gay.
  Post: #378586 Link to this post, Mon 19 Apr 10, 1:24PM
:: Kowai
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I'd say ..

I'm not GAY!
My girl friend is!
*limp wrist thing*


8D
Who am I again?
  Edit: Kowai, Mon 19 Apr 10, 8:51PM
Post: #378692 Link to this post, Mon 19 Apr 10, 8:12PM
:: ampleavenue
:: QA5 Having the neighbours round
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id probly say no or avoid the question.
altho last time a friend asked i said idk. which is true. so i guess it depends whos asking
  Post: #378718 Link to this post, Mon 19 Apr 10, 9:32PM
:: starmelace
:: QA4 A spot of tea please, Alfred!
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If they were close to me, absolutely...
but I don't have any close friends, so unless they were very open minded, i would probably say no.i'm waiting until i get out of high school to really come out.
  Post: #378728 Link to this post, Mon 19 Apr 10, 9:51PM
:: sukisyokitty
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I always tell the truth. But I tend to answer "I'm a bit of both" first off when I'm asked. It encorporates all aspects of my Queerity =P

Mostly people just ask if I'm bi, though. Word spreads in my school, pretty much everyone who knows I am me knows I'm bi ^^'
"It's better to be hated for what you are than loved for what you're not"
~ Kurt Cobain
  Post: #378734 Link to this post, Mon 19 Apr 10, 10:00PM
:: TruthIsEvil
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I'd definitely say yes.
  Post: #378736 Link to this post, Mon 19 Apr 10, 10:05PM
:: Android
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Honestly, I'd say

"Yeah, I'm super gay. I'm in such a good mood today, I'm so happy XD" and change the subject.
  Post: #378807 Link to this post, Tue 20 Apr 10, 12:20AM
:: EmoRikuKH
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id just come out and say "yup. got a problem with it?" and if they had a wierd look on their face or w/e, id just walk away and let them think whatever
/)(\ *brohoof*
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  Post: #378832 Link to this post, Tue 20 Apr 10, 1:24AM
:: Epeeist911
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For me, I think it really would depend on where I was though I think, for the most part, I'd respond by giving myself a moment of calmness. Like I'd breath for a moment. And then I'd say yeah, I am. And then I'd give them one of my looks that says "Didn't you know?"
  Post: #378849 Link to this post, Tue 20 Apr 10, 2:11AM
:: SkylerT
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there really is too much gayness for me to hide... you all saw my vlog... XD

But ya, if someone asked, I'd probably say ya.. I don't really care what other people think about my sexuality. It's my life, not theirs.
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also, thanks to Jayne for making me my banner :) <3
  Post: #378853 Link to this post, Tue 20 Apr 10, 2:13AM
:: Boozii
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This happened to me before. I said "what's the big deal if I were?" which is basically saying yes in an indirect kind of way.
  Post: #378871 Link to this post, Tue 20 Apr 10, 2:45AM
:: Stormsforeyes
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Yes I' am. Emoticon: Smile :) *Big Smile* Emoticon: Tongue :p
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  Post: #378941 Link to this post, Tue 20 Apr 10, 5:13AM
:: MrDannyV
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If I wasn't already out, which i am, i might have a problem with it and i'd probably deny it or perhaps find my way out of it. "Hey look it's Lady Gaga & a really shiny rock!" -runs away-
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  Post: #378945 Link to this post, Tue 20 Apr 10, 5:17AM
:: Jimi21
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Depends, If I like them a simple "yes" would be my answer.
If I disliked them I would come up with a smartalick response that would mean yes anyways.
Practice makes perfect, but nobodies perfect so why practice...
  Post: #378960 Link to this post, Tue 20 Apr 10, 5:50AM
:: snowy
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"Yeah I'm bi."

I've promised to myself that I won't deny who (or what) I am. I don't care who's asking, the answer will be always the same. Emoticon: Smile :)
"So hold me when I'm here,
Love me when I'm wrong,
Hold me when I'm scared,
And love me when I'm gone."
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  Post: #379021 Link to this post, Tue 20 Apr 10, 11:48AM
:: sean7326
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'Who dear? Me dear? Gay dear? No dear. I find you impertinent. How very, very dare you.' I just had a nerdy moment so I put in that reference, if anyone understands it. XD Really though? I would say yes.
  Post: #379023 Link to this post, Tue 20 Apr 10, 11:54AM
:: joshyboi
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^ Ha Emoticon: Smile :), i love Cathrine Tate.

Well like i've done probably a hundred times before say 'Yes'
  Post: #379072 Link to this post, Tue 20 Apr 10, 4:53PM
:: vignette
:: QA3 Getting cosy
I would definitely say YES!! Unless they were a creeper... or a homophobic-thug type. :0! I really don't see any need to hide it anymore.
  Post: #379338 Link to this post, Wed 21 Apr 10, 4:12AM
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