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Arguing between members is not permitted in this thread. Just because names are not mentioned does not mean the content is not offensive. |
So, this was something VERY popular on another forum I used to go on.
Basically you write something, to anyone. It could be a QAer, a friend, a stranger, your parents, a significant other, an inaminate object, whatever. Probably something you wouldn't be able to just tell them straight up, or maybe something you would.
They're always interesting to read. :]
I'll start first.
Dear___,
What you did today irked me. It didn't irk me so much that you didn't give me a part in the play, thats understandable, but it makes me mad that the only people who got parts were people from your advanced class. How do beginning students learn how to perfect their acting skills with no experience, or chance? You told us that the people in our class who auditioned for the play were the best beginning auditions you've ever seen, and that you knew that ___ high school had a great theatre future ahead of it. That makes me happy, but it still saddens me that we have no chance. That all we get to do is stage crew. And even worse, next semesters a musical. D: so, I'll probably have to wait a whole year before even having a higher chance of getting into a play, even then I might not.
Dear___,
you've been different lately. you say it's you, not me, but i kind of don't believe that, and i'm a little weary. when we distance ourselves, i kind of miss you. i don't think i should be so attached, but i obviously am, even if i dont like admitting it. we have our fights, but theres something about you.
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Post: #282404  , Thu 17 Sep 09, 11:54PM |
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Dear ____,
You better make college the best damn experience of my life or I will...do something horrible.
[I was just writing to the college gods and realized that I was pretty much at a lose-lose with them]
Dear ____,
You're perfect. I'm so sorry. It really isn't you. At all. I'm being a complete butthead and I apologize profusely because nothing between us has changed at all except my affection towards you has grown stronger. Maybe my frustration of the distance between us has grown, too, and I desire sooo much to jump in my car and drive the 45 minutes to your house right now and make eveything all better.
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Edit: azdancer4488, Fri 18 Sep 09, 12:13AM
Post: #282406 , Fri 18 Sep 09, 12:09AM |
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Dear ____,
I love you guys. A lot. Everything I do, you're in it, inspiring me. I probably wouldve killed myself if your faces hadn't popped into my head. You're the reason I went to therapy, I work so hard in life, Im willing to put myself in any situation, as long as it's for your benefit. Hell, Id still be the shy, introverted kid in the corner cutting himself without your help. I'd still be in the closet, still a christian, still slowly dying on the inside. So thank you guys. Especially you _______ ;).
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Post: #282409 , Fri 18 Sep 09, 12:26AM |
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Dear ___,
You need to get your priorities straight. No one cares that you're so religious. It's actually sort of annoying. Sucking up to teachers does not make you look cool at all. You don't need to put yourself down to get compliments, and you don't need to put other people down to make it look like you're actually giving them comments when you're just saying something that's not even important.
Dear ____,
I wish you didn't exist.
Dear ____,
You're awesome. You stick to my walls where even duct tape fails. I love you.
"Death is not the greatest loss in life. The greatest loss is what dies inside us while we live."
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Post: #282411 , Fri 18 Sep 09, 12:33AM |
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:: jtb1492
:: QA7 Taking responsibility | |
Dear___ and ___
Thanks for being my best friends. We are gonna kick ass our last year of school!! I don't want anything to change when when we go on with our different lives, but its inevitable. So lets make the best of this last year together and finish it with a banh. Know that no matter where we go I'll always love you guys.
Dear___,
I'm sorry things ended the way they did. It wasn't suppose to happend like that. Some how I feel as though it was my fault but you have to know I wasn't ready for that. I apologize if I hurt you or caused you pain because its last thing in this entire worls I would ever do. I miss our friendship, hopefully one day things can get better between us and life for us will get bett 
All girls are beautiful & that's why I love all girls.
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Post: #282415 , Fri 18 Sep 09, 12:46AM |
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Dear ____,
Whether you know it or not, you are beautiful. My hope is that one day, you will see that. I hope one day you will see the significance of you being here, and embrace it. Dont tell yourself its not worth it, because I can think of a list of people who would disagree immensely. When the going gets hard, just think of the reason that you try so hard, what is it? What do you try so hard in school for? To get somewhere... and you will get there, you will pass with flying colors and be wonderful =) I love you.
Dear _____,
You and I have been through so much dude, and you still treat me like I have no mind of my own. Im sorry that you disagree with some of the things that I do, but you arent here to judge me. I wish you would just love me.
Dear _____,
You are just like my mother, you know? The 'elder' of the group. I can remember a time where you were the opposite, and I am overjoyed to see the change in you. You are a gorgeous soul love, keep up the good work =)
I'm sorry that I have to write in paragraphs, but that's the only way my phone will let me post on QA :)
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Post: #282417 , Fri 18 Sep 09, 12:53AM |
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:: rarah
:: QA8 High Householder | |
Dear ______,
Sometimes 800+ miles scares me...but no matter what you're always gonna be my best friend. You broke my heart but I'd like you to know that I'm finally able to forgive you for it (even though you probably thought I'd done that a long time ago) because I've realized that maybe I'm a better person because of it. You are an amazing girl... I don't care what your mom says. You're one of the strongest people I know even though you don't always show it and I want to tell you not to give up, that you are who you are and you're a really great person and if no one else can see that then they're either blind, stupid, or both.
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Post: #282442 , Fri 18 Sep 09, 1:43AM |
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:: Neavah13
:: QA4 A spot of tea please, Alfred! | |
Dear ,
i wish i could tell you how much i really love you. the first time i saw you, i thought you were the most beautiful girl id ever seen. the first time i talked to you, you were the funniest, cutest, most intellegent person i ever talked to. one day, maybe, ill tell you how i really feel. but for now, i will always secretly love you.
Dear ,
thank you for always being there for me. you really are my sissy and best friend and always will be. i less than three you and will always be there for you like i know you'll be there for me.
It seems most people in this world only want the material things. But me, I'll take love and friendship. I guess that's why my cat told me she's my soulmate... :D
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Post: #282446 , Fri 18 Sep 09, 1:51AM |
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Dear ____,
Sometimes, I wanna kick you HARD in the pants, and other times, well... I don't =P. I just want to thank you so much for all the late night homework, consoling me when no one else could, being the only one to worry about my depressed behavior, and cheering me up in my worst moods. And now I want to help you (although you'll never see this.) Stop trying to change who you are. Those trucker hats and jeans are not the ___ I used to know. You wore a normal baseball cap and cargo pants, damn it! THAT is you. You cut your hair to stop the jokes, and look how they treat you now! Like nothing ever happened. It just goes to show that some people won't talk to others based on looks. But that was the innocent you. But I guess I'm just worried for you, as I always have been. What I'm asking now is probably asking you to stay young (and PLEASE stop getting taller! =P) always. But, if you must, grow up gracefully. You've jumped out of the nest too soon, and now it's the fall that will decide your fate. You're like my brother kid, and I don't want to see you fall. Just like you don't want to see me fall.
Dear ________,
I think you have seriously changed my life. Before I would stay up at night wondering "Why me?" but now, I fall asleep. I think I've become even more bubbly now, but the real kind, not the fake masking kind. I'm more confident, and my self-esteem is no longer rock bottom. I can look in the mirror and think "Damn, I look pretty freakin' good today." So thank you helping me out of the rut andsetting me on my feet again.
Dear _______,
I'm gay, so stop talking about the Kings Of Leon singer, because that man wouldn't appeal to me if I was straight. I love you
Dear_______,
Please stop worrying. You make me sick to my stomach all the time when you panic and cry. You're not okay, so stop saying you are. The first step is admitting your problem. I love you so much, and I can't wait for the day you come home with someone you love and not a care in the world. Stay strong.
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Post: #282451 , Fri 18 Sep 09, 2:17AM |
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Dear _______,
Thank you for always being there. You are pretty much the first one i always go and tell things to because i know you will be supportive and caring. I really appreciate that. I see such good things in your future, i jsut wish you could see that too. because you are AMAZING and there is no doubt about that in anyone's mind. i hope that we can be friends for a long time to come.
Do you ever think when we are all alone, all that we can be, where things can go? Am I crazy or falling in love? Is it real or just another crush?
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Post: #282452 , Fri 18 Sep 09, 2:17AM |
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:: codyco
:: QA Staff (Moderator) | |
Dear ______,
Stop. Just stop. I cant keep caring about someone who acts like they don't care about themselves. By the time I come to visit you better have quit this or you're coming back to Ohio with me. I was so excited to get to talk to you tonight and you had to go and give me bad news. I hope your situation changes. This doesnt change the way I feel about you . . . nothing ever will
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Post: #282466 , Fri 18 Sep 09, 2:52AM |
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:: Cindt
:: QA8 High Householder | |
Dear ___,
What you did back then really hurt me. You have no right to go snooping through my stuff like that, and even less right to go reporting to other people about what you find. Even worse is that you didn't know you'd done something wrong. Also, can you PLEASE stop hurting my friends. I knew when you and ______ got together it would end in tears, but you were even more of an arse than I could've predicted. She gave you a chance to fix things up between you, and you could have still been friends, but you refused to stop sulking about it. And let's talk about _____. She has been so good to you when you don't deserve it, she has stuck by you and helped you when most people would have given up. Yet you still treat her like crap. You've gone through a huge attention-seeking phase, and you've managed to get it from all the wrong places by taking up drugs and smoking. I wish you would wake up to the real world and remember who your real friends are.
"Gays don't vomit. They're a very clean people and they always have been ever since they first came to this country from France."
- Peter Griffin (Family Guy)
Sorry if my grammar's appalling, I'm probably on my phone!
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Post: #282477 , Fri 18 Sep 09, 3:32AM |
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(Is anyone actually reading everyone else's posts, or are they just skimming and writing their own? lol)
Dear ____,
I miss you. A lot. We haven't known each other for long, but I still feel a stronger connection to you than any person I've ever come in contact with. Distance is the problem, I know. You've made that clear, and I respect that. But, you went away on a trip and won't speak to me anymore. I don't know what I've done or what I didn't do and the uncertainty is killing me. I always looked forward to our late-night conversations, but they're gone now, and I'm finding myself lost without you. If you don't want to be a friend anymore, that's OK, because I want what you want. All I ask is that you at least tell me. Don't leave me hanging like this.
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Post: #282489 , Fri 18 Sep 09, 4:10AM |
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(I read a couple. Skimmed the rest. Haha.)
Dear ____,
Some days I just can't seem to function because of you. The tears you leave me in I try to hide once I get to school. Once I get to church. Once I get away from you. But still they are there, threatening to start pouring down my face if I even start to think about you.
We were so close. I loved you so much. Nothing, it felt, would change between us. You helped me through my life up until you left.
You said I could tell you anything. You said you'd always be there. What lies you filled my head, the disappiontment was greater than the actual facts.
You stared at me and screamed, "Stop thinking you're better than me, than the rest of us." I was shocked. How could you even think that, ever? I've never thought that.
Maybe it was the alcohol that changed you from who you were supposed to be. Maybe it was the moving that ripped us apart. Maybe it was the drugs that twisted your reality.
I wish you'd stop. I wish you'd see. I wish you'd stop thinking about yourself all the time. I wish you'd stop leaving me, I wish you'd stop bothing me.
I just wish you'd love me like you should.
Someday you'll regret pushing me away. Someday you'll see it wasn't grandma who stole me away, but grandma I RAN to when you'd bring out the monster inside of you.
Even he agrees that your crazy, and he's worse than you...
~Love, Timi
It's better to be absolutly ridiculous than absolutly boring.
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Post: #282499 , Fri 18 Sep 09, 4:37AM |
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Dear ___,
Please come back, i never wanted u to leave, i never hated you, i was just very upset and im so sorry. idc anymore weather u did or u didnti just want you to be happy.
Dear ___,
I love ya a lot but ik u do not love me the same way i do, probaly never would even if u didnt love him. im werid, and hopelessly romatic..xP of corse uk that i share almost everything that happens to me w/ you and i think u get anoyyed sometimes. well even if u dont love me like that i still love u and i think u love me..xP i wont ever forget u.
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Post: #282510 , Fri 18 Sep 09, 4:55AM |
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Dear ____,
I don't love you. I can't love you. In fact, I don't even care about you. This shouldn't even happen under normal circumstances but after so many lies and broken promises and being hypocritical and manipulative....I just...can't.
Maybe, just maybe, things will change in the future. Maybe we'll rebuild a proper relationship once I've made my own life...
But we'll have to wait and see.
Dear ____,
You've been sporadically pissing me off. I know you're going through a rough time but there is such a thing as being too selfish.
The problem is I feel like I can't say anything because I've either never been in your situation or I've felt the same way so I feel like saying something is wrong. I feel like you'll either say "Well, you've done this before too" or "You don't know what it's like"...
I also wonder if you'll take what I say...because something about how you are now actually makes me doubt it for once.
That isn't to say you aren't recovering. I do feel that you seem to be getting better slowly.
There are just times when I don't know what to do.
Dear ____,
Hey you. Someone is certainly flaunting their singleness, hm?
Haha I'm kidding.
It is rather interesting that we reconnected over women though. Late night conversations about women will bring anyone closer, I'd imagine, however.
You're learning. And I know there was that day when we were rather harsh with you. But I'd rather you not use those words you used then because of what happened in the past. They struck too sensitive a chord with me at the time. And I'd rather that not happen again.
But!
You've been doing well. And I'm happy for you.
Dear ____,
You know what's weird? Our opinions on things are rather similar. The difference is, you voice them. Or word them differently.
I still find it weird that you're the youngest. But at times I really don't. You're still the most overall immature of the group. That isn't to say you're immature...but compared the us, you're lacking in some maturity. Sort of.
Actually, if you look at our ages, from oldest to youngest, you'll find that that is also our order in terms of maturity. Usually.
There are always exceptions. As we both know.
I am glad though that I finally let go of you. Well, as a love interest. That was 10 months that didn't really get me anywhere...but now that I've let go, as I've told you, I feel like I can fully and completely be here as your friend.
And that makes me happy.
Dear ____,
I hope to meet you. I know I most likely will never see you again...but I still have this hope.
So, if I do see you again and I do walk up to talk to you, I hope that you say hi.
98% of teenagers drink or have been around alcohol. Paste this if you like muffins.
"Cubivore is rated "M" for "Mutation," it contains scenes of carnivorous
cubes and fountains of rectangular blood. Player discretion is advised."
-EntropicLobo
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Post: #282530 , Fri 18 Sep 09, 5:38AM |
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Dear ____,
Thank you for letting me know that being gay was okay, thus giving me the courage to come out to you. And thank you for being there for me when I was coming out to my other friends. I couldn't have been able to do it without you.
Dear ____,
I liked you, I really did. But you've turned into the biggest insensitive bastard I've ever met. Your excuses are downright pathetic. I'm glad I don't like you anymore. Besides, you're as straight as an arrow, and nothing will come out of it.
Dear ____,
You're one of the nicest guys I've ever met. You're always always being understanding and forgiving despite my stupid mess-ups. And for all the help you've given me, thank you. You may have disappeared but you'll always be in my mind.
Dear ____,
Thank you for introducing me to Japanese music. It felt like a major turning point in my life. Our meeting was short, but I'll always remember you. Good luck out there!
"I like being alone, but I hate being lonely."
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Post: #282541 , Fri 18 Sep 09, 6:08AM |
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:: LeShaker
:: QA7 Taking responsibility | |
Dear _____,
Thank you for being my best friend. Before I met you, I was alone. I had nobody to talk to, nobody to relate to. But then you came into my life and changed everything. I had high walls built and firmly in place, only for you to come in and tear them down piece by piece. You taught me how to trust again, and you taught me that it was okay to be yourself. You had faith in me when things got rough, and talked me through some of the most stressful situations in my life over the past year. We've been through a lot, and I honestly have no idea how I've survived this all, but not a day goes by that I'm not thankful that we found each other. Thank you for understanding me and my weird ways before we even became close friends and thank you for banishing my insecurities. I've never met anyone quite like you before. There is just something about you that brings out the confidence and love in others. You're contagious, and I am unbelievably lucky to know someone as kindhearted, talented and remarkable as you. I can't even begin to imagine what my life would be like without you. I honestly wouldn't be the same person I am today. I love you, and always will. You truly are the best friend that I've ever had, and it's pretty much impossible for you to not have a special place in my heart.
Dear ______,
You truly are a remarkable human being. You are hands down the most interesting person to talk to. I love that we can spend countless hours talking about anything and everything, from the mystery of sexuality, to the wonders of life and religion. Every conversation with you is a learning experience and truly enjoyable. I wish you could see how amazing you really are. Under it all, I can see that you have your own personal battles and insecurities, and I am so proud of how courageous you've grown to be. You are stronger than you think. You are human, you make mistakes, you have your flaws. But that only adds to who you are. Thank you for your support through everything, and thank you for helping me fight my own battles, even if it's an inconvenience to you.
Dear ______,
You are an arrogant asshole sometimes. Maybe if you stop worrying about yourself for a minute, you'd see how much everything is affecting the people around you. Not everyone is as lucky or careless as you. We all have our insecurities and own way of doing things, and you need to deal with it. Sometimes, you're so insensitive and obnoxious that I'm almost embarrassed to call you my friend. Yeah, you're a good friend at times, but you have your mind made up about everything. You may call yourself liberal, but you're also very close-minded. You believe that everything is okay in this world, but it's not. Not everything is as easy as you think. Just because you got lucky with where you come from and having accepting parents is not a reason for you to be insensitive to those of us who may not have it as easy as you.
Dear ______,
I don't even know your name, but I'd really like to get to know you a little better.
Dear ______,
You suck at being a teacher. Maybe if you stopped talking to us all as if we were 5 and putting us down when we ask questions, you'd get a little more respect.
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Edit: LeShaker, Fri 18 Sep 09, 6:27AM
Post: #282548 , Fri 18 Sep 09, 6:17AM |
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Dear____,
God, I miss you. We used to be bestfriends, and now, I don't even know you anymore. We used to be so close. We'd go to the mall all weekend, every weekend, we'd hang out at your house, the movies, etc. We'd hold hands, and you'd sit on my lap. We'd text eachother while we were sitting right next to eachother in the car. But, then you got grounded for being who you were, and then I was stupid, got wasted, and got my phone taken away. Now, you never have time for me. Since you got grounded last year, I've seen you TWICE. we used to seee eachother friday-sunday EVERY weekend, for like three or four months! I'm having withdrawals from my gay boy bestfriend. You never have time to hangout, but it always seems like you have time for everyone else. The only time It seems that I have chances too see you, is when someone else is having some event that we've both been invited too, but then you always end up with something else to do. You once told me you dont even know if youre gay anymore, and that maybe im a bad influence on you. ARE YOU SERIOUS!? D: -sigh- i hate your parents so much for grounding you, for making it seem like being who you are is horrible, and making you want to be straight.
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Post: #282601 , Fri 18 Sep 09, 1:34PM |
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Dear _____,
Saying that to you was the hardest thing I've ever done in my life. I hope you know that its for the best. Both you and her deserve each other, I don't fit in this equation.
I love you.
I'm sorry that I have to write in paragraphs, but that's the only way my phone will let me post on QA :)
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Post: #282634 , Fri 18 Sep 09, 7:07PM |
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