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Blog Entry: Falling Too Hard, Too Fast
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Falling Too Hard, Too Fast
I have a way of making a big deal out of nothing and it's super annoying. I was talking to this cute girl on this website and she literally said two words to me and I was like "Oh my God. I'm totally in love with her!" Jesus! Why does this always happen to me?
It's not like I'm gonna stalk her profile constantly or set a wedding date, but I just always seem to get way ahead of myself. Who knows if this girl will even like me (or if I'll really like her even because I don't know her that well yet) and yet I can't stop thinking about the possibility. Who knows? I could have just met my future wife. Or a girl I'm going to talk to for three days and then never hear from again.
*Sigh* (I just realized I *sigh* a lot in these posts)
views: 392 responses: 8 posted by SamIAm2 on Thursday 16 August 2012 at 4:04AM
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:: Gaeas_Star
:: QA4 A spot of tea please, Alfred! | |
Well know one thing you aren't the only one that does that. I tend to do that as well. I am happy to know I am not the only one that does this. ^__^
Hang in there though you just never know.
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Post: #675218  , Thu 16 Aug 12, 6:34AM |
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Aww, I used to do that all the time !! Eventually, I just got tired of feeling that way and not having it returned so I guess I learned to guard my heart...which is not necessarily a good thing. Whenever I start feeling a crush coming on that I know will probably not be returned I just talk myself out of it and wont let myself think about it until eventually I move on.
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Post: #675219 , Thu 16 Aug 12, 6:38AM |
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I get u
I always tend to fall for people way too easily.they always turn out to be straight (or disinterested?)
Gradually u'll know better than to let yourself fall too easily;)
Cheers;)
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Post: #675228 , Thu 16 Aug 12, 7:37AM |
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I did that too, Rachel  . It's sort of sucky but sometimes it works out for the best. I actually did that with three people:
Person A: MAYBE likes me back. But they're unattainable so... It's not going to happen. Or at least not for awhile... A LONG while .
Person B: will never like me like that... Well maybe HE will but he's a gay boy (he is panromantic though) but I seriously doubt we'd ever get anywhere because I also happen to be a gay girl (well I'm genderqueer but biologically female and I'm almost completely for girls).
And
Person C: who I only just met (like you) but I really like her . She's... Idk we just hit it off and I'm hoping she'll PM me back soon so we can keep talking. She's super duper awesome and funny and nice... Did I mention I liked her? :3 but I sort of feel like her feelings aren't the same... Maybe they are and I'm just getting that vibe but I don't really want to find out just yet if that means I have to tell her I like her  .
So we all do that its okay too because no one really judges us for liking other people. Like the person I am I like a lot of different people for a lot of different reasons and I can start liking someone right away too. I sort of gave up on Person B and Person A is probably always going to be that crush that bugs me in the back of my mind (and sometimes in the front) but for this moment I'm thinking about Person C who I maybe stand a chance with.
Sometimes you gotta organise if it can happen and then go for people you might stand a chance with .
To see us dance is to hear our hearts speak- Hopi Indian saying
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Edit: blacksummer, Thu 16 Aug 12, 9:28AM
Post: #675232 , Thu 16 Aug 12, 9:23AM |
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:: TealSkye
:: QA7 Taking responsibility | |
Yeah, that happens to me too. TT__TT
In short, we can't help it. Sometimes the body just likes someone chemically. These times infuriate me, but what can you do? It's best to let it run it's course, but stay realistic in your mind. The chances are 50%, no matter what. Simply for lack of clairvoyance, and quantum mechanic aid. XD
I end up having crushes on most all my friends. Which is fine in my opinion. This just means I find them attractive, I want to be around them alot, and they make me feel good, and happy. Also means I want them in my life. 
That's healthy to me, especially when you work up the courage to befriend them, or they befriend you, and you click. It feels good to be around them, and that's enough for me most of the time. ^_^
At the same time, sometimes there is a quirk. It's always someones mannerisms that end up being my downfall. They just make the little butterflies in my belly, get a swarm of humans in their belly. It's wicked bro. Even if they don't feel the same, it's a crazy ride, that if you accept as an endeavor to be around them, isn't as sad.
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Post: #675256 , Thu 16 Aug 12, 3:36PM |
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Let me tell y'all a story.
A week or so after I first joined QA, I saw a comment that a girl made on something. I thought she was really funny, so I looked at her profile and saw that she and I had just about everything in common. But she was older than me, and I thought she'd never in a million years like me.
About six months later, she randomly messages me. We start talking and really hit it off. After a while, we both admit to having a crush on each other.
One day, almost two months ago, I got up the nerve to ask her out and by some miracle, she said yes.
And that is the story of Stephanie and I. <3
DON'T GIVE UP HOPE. You may think you liked them too quickly, but really, that doesn't mean anything.
And you never know. They may like you back, even if you don't think they do. People are tricky to figure out.
Good luck. (:
The world breaks everyone and afterward many are strong in the broken places. But those that will not break it kills. It kills the very good and the very gentle and the very brave impartially. If you are none of these you can be sure it will kill you too but there will be no special hurry. -Ernest Hemingway
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Post: #675434 , Fri 17 Aug 12, 1:50AM |
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:: Marina367
:: QA4 A spot of tea please, Alfred! | |
yep thats totally me..falling wayy too quickly
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Post: #675441 , Fri 17 Aug 12, 2:09AM |
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Definitely me. Happened to me three times in the last two years. Even IRL, I'll have a conversation with someone and be awestruck and infatuated with them: just from talking to them. 
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Post: #675449 , Fri 17 Aug 12, 2:44AM |
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