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Blog Entry: i jus love bein called fat.

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i jus love bein called fat. because i love bein called fat by my family. i can handle bein called a slut and a whore and watever else they wanna call me but i cant handle bein called fat.. i have terrible self image and i jus go by wat everyone else says. my grandma yesterday after my showchoir concert said that i was lookin like i gained weight and then told me i needed a diet...i went home and just cried. adn then today i was wearin shorts and a tank top cuz its hot out and my dad told me i need to lose weight...im the skinnest one in my family everyone is overweight and thats honestly my biggest fear is becoming fat.
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posted by graciella on Sunday 13 May 2012 at 9:29PM

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:: MusicLoverLiz3
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If everyone else in your family is overweight, they are just saying that to feel better about themselves. Projecting what they don't like about themselves onto you.
I'm sorry you have to deal with it though, that's not fair. Try to ignore them as best you can.

You are absolutely not fat.

If people are trying to tear you down, it only means you're above them.
I push through the fog of my own thoughts
  Post: #649046 Link to this post, Sun 13 May 12, 11:47PM
:: graciella
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i jus hate it. like i mean i never kno wat they really think of me
  Post: #649056 Link to this post, Mon 14 May 12, 12:22AM
:: MusicLoverLiz3
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Im sure they are just jealous, since nothing they are saying has any truth to it.

Who cares what the haters think? Love yourself <3
I push through the fog of my own thoughts
  Post: #649057 Link to this post, Mon 14 May 12, 12:27AM
:: Inch
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Looking at your avatar, I can see you aren't really fat. No chub on your face or anything. You're actually pretty Emoticon: Smile :)

Don't let them tear you down. No matter what they say, remember to love yourself.
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  Post: #649060 Link to this post, Mon 14 May 12, 12:34AM
:: graciella
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thanks guys<3
  Post: #649063 Link to this post, Mon 14 May 12, 12:39AM
:: blacksummer
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Sweetheart!
You are NOT fat!!!
You get good exercise with cheer and show choir and you eat healthy!
I can't believe your family called you that!
Remember, you're beautiful just how you are and I love you just how you are and I wouldn't want you any other way, okay? Emoticon: Smile :)
Love you, hun.
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  Post: #649064 Link to this post, Mon 14 May 12, 12:42AM
:: graciella
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thanks babe love u too!
  Post: #649068 Link to this post, Mon 14 May 12, 12:53AM
:: Edward1389
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You need to seriously talk to your family and tell them howv their words is affecting you. It is important to establish this communication between you and your parents.
  Post: #649083 Link to this post, Mon 14 May 12, 1:18AM
:: MusicLoverLiz3
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Edward is right ^
I push through the fog of my own thoughts
  Post: #649086 Link to this post, Mon 14 May 12, 1:26AM
:: Kuuipo
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I don't get how family can just tear each other down like that, even if they think it's a joke. Words hurt.
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  Post: #649087 Link to this post, Mon 14 May 12, 1:28AM
:: graciella
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i tell my family all the time how it effects me they dont care.
  Post: #649098 Link to this post, Mon 14 May 12, 1:56AM
:: EleventyFive
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that's horrible :'(
I'm a wild one.
  Post: #649104 Link to this post, Mon 14 May 12, 2:03AM
:: Nicole_Love
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You are beautiful no matter what, both inside AND out, and any thing they say isn't true. I can see just from your picture that you aren't fat. Just keep your head high and remember that they're all probably just jealous cause they can't be as pretty as you. Emoticon: Smile :)
The world breaks everyone and afterward many are strong in the broken places. But those that will not break it kills. It kills the very good and the very gentle and the very brave impartially. If you are none of these you can be sure it will kill you too but there will be no special hurry. -Ernest Hemingway
  Post: #649111 Link to this post, Mon 14 May 12, 2:13AM
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