If everyone else in your family is overweight, they are just saying that to feel better about themselves. Projecting what they don't like about themselves onto you.
I'm sorry you have to deal with it though, that's not fair. Try to ignore them as best you can.
You are absolutely not fat.
If people are trying to tear you down, it only means you're above them.
I push through the fog of my own thoughts
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Post: #649046 , Sun 13 May 12, 11:47PM |
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i jus hate it. like i mean i never kno wat they really think of me
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Post: #649056 , Mon 14 May 12, 12:22AM |
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Im sure they are just jealous, since nothing they are saying has any truth to it.
Who cares what the haters think? Love yourself <3
I push through the fog of my own thoughts
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Post: #649057 , Mon 14 May 12, 12:27AM |
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:: Inch
:: QA6 Livin' it up! | |
Looking at your avatar, I can see you aren't really fat. No chub on your face or anything. You're actually pretty 
Don't let them tear you down. No matter what they say, remember to love yourself.
I will never be afraid again
I will keep on fighting 'till the end
I can walk on water
I can fly
I will keep on fighting 'till I die
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Post: #649060 , Mon 14 May 12, 12:34AM |
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thanks guys<3
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Post: #649063 , Mon 14 May 12, 12:39AM |
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Sweetheart!
You are NOT fat!!!
You get good exercise with cheer and show choir and you eat healthy!
I can't believe your family called you that!
Remember, you're beautiful just how you are and I love you just how you are and I wouldn't want you any other way, okay? 
Love you, hun.
To see us dance is to hear our hearts speak- Hopi Indian saying
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Post: #649064 , Mon 14 May 12, 12:42AM |
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thanks babe love u too!
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Post: #649068 , Mon 14 May 12, 12:53AM |
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You need to seriously talk to your family and tell them howv their words is affecting you. It is important to establish this communication between you and your parents.
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Post: #649083 , Mon 14 May 12, 1:18AM |
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Edward is right ^
I push through the fog of my own thoughts
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Post: #649086 , Mon 14 May 12, 1:26AM |
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:: Kuuipo
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I don't get how family can just tear each other down like that, even if they think it's a joke. Words hurt.
"The past can hurt. You can either run from it or learn from it." ~Rafiki
“Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don’t matter, and those who matter don’t mind.” ~Dr. Seuss
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Post: #649087 , Mon 14 May 12, 1:28AM |
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i tell my family all the time how it effects me they dont care.
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Post: #649098 , Mon 14 May 12, 1:56AM |
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that's horrible :'(
I'm a wild one.
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Post: #649104 , Mon 14 May 12, 2:03AM |
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You are beautiful no matter what, both inside AND out, and any thing they say isn't true. I can see just from your picture that you aren't fat. Just keep your head high and remember that they're all probably just jealous cause they can't be as pretty as you.
The world breaks everyone and afterward many are strong in the broken places. But those that will not break it kills. It kills the very good and the very gentle and the very brave impartially. If you are none of these you can be sure it will kill you too but there will be no special hurry. -Ernest Hemingway
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Post: #649111 , Mon 14 May 12, 2:13AM |
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