I'm sorry about not having the spark. I know what you mean. My first 'girlfriend' and I just 'dated' so we could make out. And there was nothing. But a bad memory. >.< Are you going to break up with him because of it? Because sometimes it takes a while to feel that spark.
And good luck with this new boy. If you dump Matt that is.
"You can't love someone as much as you can miss them"- John Green, An Abundance of Katherine's
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Post: #626027  , Fri 9 Mar 12, 5:08AM |
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I don't really know. I'll see where it goes with Kieran. I also don't think that Matt and I are very compatible together.. and we are kind of distant. I kind of feel the way you felt about your first "girlfriend". I think I'm more in it for the physical connection than the emotional.. Whenever we're just talking it's awkward and short lived. =\
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Edit: Skybound, Fri 9 Mar 12, 5:12AM
Post: #626029 , Fri 9 Mar 12, 5:11AM |
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Yeah. Talking is one of the main things in a good and stable relationship. Good luck with Kieran. 
"You can't love someone as much as you can miss them"- John Green, An Abundance of Katherine's
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Post: #626033 , Fri 9 Mar 12, 5:14AM |
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Sorry things aren't going quite as great as you'd hope, but live and learn right? And never settle, when you've found someone you really like you'll know And it's awesome that you've found another person at your school who's LGBT, I found out one of my female friends @ school was bi and I got all excited, even though it was so obvious (I'm so oblivious ^_^ ). Good luck with this Kieran, hopefully you'll make a great new friend!
"All men should strive to learn before they die: What they are running from, and to, and why."
-James Thurber
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Edit: CarLoverCL55, Fri 9 Mar 12, 5:17AM
Post: #626034 , Fri 9 Mar 12, 5:16AM |
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Thanks guys! I hope all goes well with Kieran. I probably should have held off on asking Matt to be my boyfriend but oh well.
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Post: #626038 , Fri 9 Mar 12, 5:21AM |
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:: tenten
:: QA4 A spot of tea please, Alfred! | |
Hey, every relationship teaches you something new. As long as you got wiser from it, don't regret anything.
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Post: #626041 , Fri 9 Mar 12, 5:28AM |
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True! Thanks Ten (E)!
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Edit: Skybound, Fri 9 Mar 12, 5:40AM
Post: #626042 , Fri 9 Mar 12, 5:40AM |
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:: Keanu
:: QA5 Having the neighbours round | |
I know exactly what you mean. Before I met my current boyfriend I was with this guy. Had only been with him a couple of days, and he was super nice and what not, but I felt nothing, I wanted to be his friend but that's it. Then I saw my current boyfriend for the first time and I felt something. I felt a whole lot!
So I just kindly let the other guy go. Then went after my current boyfriend Never been happier.
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Post: #626060 , Fri 9 Mar 12, 9:33AM |
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it sucks when it dies, but it's a signal to get out. you can't help it, so it's nothing to feel bad about, I don't anymore.
but congrats on the other dude. although do go for him just after you got out with the other guy. that's almost a live prediction for a repeat of the last one.
it will be alright in the end, and if it's not alright, it's not the end yet.
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Post: #626084 , Fri 9 Mar 12, 4:39PM |
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How do you know? How long should I wait? 
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Post: #626126 , Fri 9 Mar 12, 10:10PM |
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Apparently Kieran likes cuddling and gives really good hugs 
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Post: #626131 , Fri 9 Mar 12, 10:40PM |
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:: N538NH
:: QA5 Having the neighbours round | |
Do you have a crush on this kieron kid?
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Post: #626439 , Sun 11 Mar 12, 4:01AM |
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Yeahh kind of XD he is sending me mixed signals though.
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Post: #626888 , Tue 13 Mar 12, 1:53AM |
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:: Kurtis
:: QA6 Livin' it up! | |
what do you mean by mixed signals?
You look beautiful like always
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Post: #628745 , Wed 21 Mar 12, 1:19AM |
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If a guy is sending you mixed signals it's a good idea to hold off from doing anything cause it usually means they aren't sure
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Post: #628856 , Wed 21 Mar 12, 6:56AM |
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:: xXGarXx
:: QA4 A spot of tea please, Alfred! | |
"..Apparently Kieran likes cuddling and gives really good hugs.."
That is physical also though. I think your penis is doing your thinking sir. Haha. Get “It” out of your system, and think about everything other than sexual appeals and what not. WHAT do yooou like about them? 
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Post: #654778 , Thu 7 Jun 12, 7:34PM |
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Later in the evening my friend told me that Kieran had called me cute without her even asking him. I pretty much fell out of my chair. I told her she could tell him I was closeted but he had gone offline for the night. She is going to tell him tomorrow when she sees him at the bus stop. *Crosses fingers*
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